I may cop a lot of flack for this but I need some help and advice, maybe writing my thoughts and feelings down will help me work through things.
Have any of you dads struggled with a work crush? Right now it's what the internet calls "an Emotional Affair". The banter turned into flirting then it became an emotionally charged friendship. The chemistry is off the charts, and it's destroying me on the inside that I feel this way about someone other than my wife, if I were to ever act on it, it would ruin everything.
Due to the nature of my work, both myself and crush work very very closely for most of the day, and it would be nigh on impossible to change the work environment for at least 6 to 9 months.
My wife and I have been together since we were 18, going on 10 mostly amazing years. Inevitably, 3 kids, work and life in general has dulled the flame somewhat over the past 2 years, but the love has never been in doubt. We were always the solid couple amidst turmoil in the family, and we still are except for what I am battling. I don't have many friends to confide in and the ones I do have we are friends as couples so it makes it difficult
If anyone has any advice please share, and again I understand if I cop a lot of flack for this but I had to write it down to get my head straight.
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BouncingSoul · 16/01/2016 17:14
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