Hi, I hope no one minds me asking this in the Dadsnet forum, but I'm just a bit concerned...
My DH and I are expecting our first child in Dec, and he's wanted them for ages and is really pleased and excited, which is great, but just every now and then I read stuff or just find myself thinking that this will change everything forever. We're really happy now, and were really happy before conceiving too, and hopefully this will just be an extra good thing to add to that, but I have always feared that there is a chance he'll a. never want to sleep with me again after seeing all the chaos and horror of labour, b. want to but be too tired to or stop seeing me as a sexual object and just see me as his child's mother, c. simpy be more interested in the baby than me in general... These fears arent founded on anything he's ever said or done, more on what I've heard and read elsewhere, and I'm probably being an irrational nutter, but DID it change anything for the worse? Or am I being a hormonal pregnant berk? Be as honest as you like, even if it's telling me to shut up!
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utopian99 · 27/09/2012 10:44
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