Exp and I have been trying to come to an arrangement over contact.
I have not asked for maintenance nor expect it.
We were doing well with him having the Dc's 3 weekends a month. Usually pick up Saturday morning, have overnight, then he took them to his parents who then bring them home.
He has now changed to every other weekend, which, I know is better than nothing. But his excuse is 'I want a life with my mates, the mates I've known longer than you've been alive' 'Why should I have to give up all my free time?'
Erm, because you are their dad!
On the weekends he has them I try and get everything done that cannot be done properly while they are here. (2 under 4's). I don't spend my 'free' time going out on the lash with my mates looking for new 'buddies'!
So, my question to you Dadnetters is.......
Would you prefer to see your children as much as you could, or give some of that precious time out so you can go get pissed?
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Do you want to see your kids as much as possible or do you want a 'life' too?
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OneHundredPercentFucked · 19/07/2011 23:25
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