Hi,
Don't want to intrude on you guys but would really appreciate some male perspective....
Been with dh for about 4 years now, both late 30's and both had a child before, mine is now 11 his will be 16 soon... And of course both had relationships etc before...
Dh moved in quite quickly with me and ds but it was good and we married quite quickly... I'm a 'spirited' woman who can be a bit feisty and fairly independent and we have decent chats etc about all sorts of things, and I would say I am also a fairly sensual person but dh has always seemed to have a lower 'drive' than me... This has gotten worse since we had dd 14 months ago and now I am lucky if he feels up for it once a month...
I try and initiate it loads but get told that it puts him off and yet if I don't then we don't iyswim...
Dh does drink a couple of pints regularly and works hard (but has lie ins 3-5 times a week!) and I sleep alot less, what do you guys think could be the problem and from a male point of view how can I encourage more 'action' without making him feel pressured?
Ta very much!
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notremotelyintofootie · 27/01/2011 19:28
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