Hi, i am currently pregnant with twins. around a month ago when i was 16 weeks pg me and my partner had an argument/fight that got out of hand. He had slapped me round the back of the head and threatened me with more physical violence. I called the police and moved to my mums for a few weeks. The police said social services were contacted. In my police interview i had told them my partner had been abusive in the past. This was at the start of the relationship and usually it was just arguments that we have both been as bad as each other in and wound each other up to the point of screaming and pushing. Anyway since then no charges have been made and my partner got no further action. We are back living together and things are going a lot better. We both have agreed to stop pushing each others buttons. I had a child support officer round last week and she seemed really concerned that there would be more domestic abuse/violence and she will be possibly applying for a section 47. I know they have the babies best interests in mind but im so scared that they are going to try and take them away. I really dont want to stress at this time while im pregnant. My partner already has an 8 year old who we have joint custody for and she wasnt here on the day of the argument. But he is a great dad to her and i have no fear that her or my twins are in any danger. We have never argued around the 8 year old and we both would put the twins before ourselves. We just have heated moments every once in a while that we really want to work on as we want to be a family. Does anyone have any stories/advice please. I just want to know there could be a positive outcome really? Thanks
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Jadecali · 12/08/2018 15:04
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