Hi money savvy Mumsnetters,
Please can you tell me how to save more, go on more holidays etc. My partner and I live in London and have fluctuating incomes which makes it hard to budget properly. I’d say we know that we will earn at least £40k a year and anything extra is a bonus. Some months we are extremely low and other months we have a false illusion that we’re earning loads.
We are thinking about TTC (we may even leave London in a few years for our home country) so really want to start learning how to budget before we have another human to look after.
The thing that puts me off budgeting is the lack of spontaneity, I’d be keen to hear from other people who enjoy a spontaneous meal out or a spontaneous weekend break but also don’t earn a whole lot. How do you do it? Is budgeting very rigid? I can’t imagine counting every single penny and wonder if it would be better to save a certain amount each month and live off the rest.
We have Monzo so we sometimes use the pots for our grocery budget, rent etc. I’ve also heard good things about the money saving expert’s spreadsheet.
Also what do you do if you have very unorganised parter? He will listen to me and budget his money but I can’t really police his daily expenditure can I? Like if he buys lunch or an odd coffee at work. Or am I wrong, should I be controlling every penny?
I do feel we have been sucked into the middle class spendy lifestyle of London, so we definitely eat out way too much. I’d rather eat out less and go on more trips away. Our rent is quite cheap for London so cuts there aren’t really possible. We don’t have a car but might get one soon (which I’m actually agains but my partner insists).
We both come from disadvantaged/ working class backgrounds so witnessed our parents relying on benefits and living pay check to pay check, This is all new to us. Just to give you context, my mother thinks we are rich.
No judgmental posters please, I’m really not in the mood, just asking for constructive advice from people who’ve been there and done that. As I said it would be nice to hear from people who have a spendy nature and live in an expensive city as people who are naturally frugal, introverted and living rural won’t understand where I’m coming from.
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Psychgrad · 12/06/2021 08:04
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