I am trying to make our household bills more equal. I took a new job last January less stress less pay. I was always the higher earner and didn’t rebalance our spend.
Currently we put 600 each into a joint account which covers bills such as mortgage, water, gas and electricity, council tax and virgin. Anything left over pays for our summer holiday and a weekend away.
We could save a lot on our virgin as we pay 106 a month which is awful l think. Which lm going to look at today.
Currently my dh gives me £100 towards food per month, he hasn’t got a clue about how much food cost because l spend about £75 a week and this is shopping at Aldi and Home Bargains for “luxuries”. He does get bread and milk if lm in work, this however doesn’t cost him the amount lm spending. So l am going to suggest £40 per week each which will also cover our sons activities which is £5 per week and the window cleaner which is £7 a month. This will help me out greatly especially in 5 week months. Any extra can stay in the pot for special occasions such as Christmas /Easter and birthdays.
I am also going to be asking him for the cash every Monday as when he transfers it to me in my bank account l don’t really feel like l see it.
I want to stop taking my cards out with me so l stop using them l will take the cash out shopping with me and l will have an ermegency £20 in my car if l need it.
In November my contract is up on my phone so l can save £35 a month more.
I need to rebalance our childcare as well some howl pay more than him and l pay breakfast club too.
I have just potty trained my little girl so now l don’t need to buy nappies.
I do meal plan already but weekly as l found when doing it monthly it was all prossed food and very little fresh food. We eat much better now.
There are 4 of us me, dh, ds 6yo and dd nearly 3.
I am down to my last £100 in my savings account, l don’t think dh knows how much lm stressing out about this. I don’t really know what lm asking. How do the finances at your house balance out.
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Solongtoshort · 27/08/2018 11:58
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