Right, not going to proclaim I’m the world’s best husband ever, I know I’m not, I do forget some things and a few times they have been important.
I’m here to ask for a sounding board.
I work full time as does my wife. My wife is significantly better paid than I am, about 25 % more and I don’t think I’m badly paid for what I do.
On maternity leave, my wife’s baby group all got their other halves to give them an amount to spend like pocket money up to £500 a month. No one I know has done this, but she thinks this is normal. Is it ?
I didn’t, but I paid for all shopping, paid 50% for anything purchased additionally for my kids. My wife’s maternity pay was full pay for six months and reduced thereafter. In effect, she actually put away a lot of money.
This one is being put back at me a lot recently and I want to know what others think. Whilst doing my through the night duties, commuting and shopping, washing and the other things. Should I have given her an allowance, when money wasn’t even there to start with ???
Monies been tight for the last year a lot and I know a lot of other parents really struggle too.
Help please !
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bamboolzled · 16/03/2018 11:42
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