I'm a writer (six published non-fiction books and one published novel). I'm working on a novel in which the main male character is a widower aged about 52, having lost his wife in an accident about three years before the main story begins. He was happily married for about 25 years, his children are adults, and he feels at sea in trying to form a new relationship - something he badly wants. He craves physical and emotional intimacy, but has little idea how to go about achieving it. Sadly, I have a couple of friends who've been in the position. I feel I know this man. What I have more difficulty in imagining is how women might relate to him: the issues my main female character might have in starting such a relationship, and then in sustaining it. My idea about the female character is that she is also somewhat shut down emotionally, having been divorced in her early thirties, and then bruised by an affair with a man during a work assignment abroad in a war zone with a man who hid the fact he was married with kids back home. She's a highly skilled professional woman aged about 45. I think before my man meets her, he's going to have a relationship with someone else that ends badly. Is there anyone out there who would like to give me some thoughts?
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maleauthor · 18/03/2015 10:26
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