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I’ve lived in the North of England for almost 10 years and for the last 6 have considered off and on returning home to NI. I frequently get homesick and want to be nearer to my family. DP grew up where we live now and his parents live near by. We see them regularly but only see his extended family on occasions like big birthdays, weddings etc. I’m very close to my family including grandparents/aunties/cousins etc and see them a lot when I’m home.
Having lived here all of my adult life I only really have friends here, although I wouldn’t say any are particularly close and I struggle to make friends. I never had a consistent group of friends through my childhood so although I have acquaintances through social media, DP and I definitely wouldn’t have a friendship group if we moved.
We’re hoping to start a family in the next couple of years and I feel like if we do that in England I’ll never return home. I don’t know what to do for the best. In many ways England offers many more opportunities but it just doesn’t feel like home. On the other hand I’m wary that I’m seeing living at home through rose tinted glasses.
I suppose I’m just looking for advice if you’ve been in this position. if you’ve made it to the end!
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ShouldIStay0rShouldIGo · 08/07/2018 21:27
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