Apologies in advance for the rant!!
We have been (like most people!) following the guidelines regarding social distancing since March. We’ve been shopping for our parents so have had some contact with them, dh has been at work (nhs) and I work in school so have also been working throughout. Our kids have had to go back to school in the keyworker group since my class has gone back a few weeks ago. We’ve had no choice but to be in contact with people through work/school/shopping.
The problem is, a couple of family members and our friends have been carrying on like normal. I mean, parties in each others houses, day trips together, sharing cars, beach days, play dates, bbqs etc. They don’t bother contacting us anymore, even just to chat or see how we are all doing. I’m guessing because they know we won’t join in? None of them have been at work, they have been furloughed or are supposed to be working from home (!). I know they are talking about us behind our backs. We’ve found the last few months a struggle, apart from having to go to work and school/the anxiety of it all etc, we have had lots of other stuff going on that has been really stressful.
Why can’t they see that they are part of the problem? There’s nothing we’d like more than to relax with our friends or have a day out with them all (yes I know that’s possible now, but they have all cut contact with us so we don’t get invited) but we have been trying hard to get through this knowing we have done what we can to help.
I know there are bigger things to worry about, but I’ve woken up today thinking it’s really rude of them and I’m actually quite angry!!
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firenze86 · 27/06/2020 09:17
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