I was wondering if anyone has been able to see their loved ones who are in a care home yet in any way at all apart from skype? I’ve read of some people seeing them through a window or driving by.
My lovely Dad is in a care home with advanced Alzheimers. My mum is so low as not been able to see him and on the skype calls he doesn’t respond. He did respond to her when she used to visit even though he couldn’t say much, he knew who she was.
She just said to me on the phone she is desperate to see him as she doesn’t know much longer he will remember her for. It’s so hard, I don’t know how to make her feel happier.
The care home look after him very well but they are not good at communicating. We never hear anything from them unless my Dad has had a fall. My mum rings but is worried about bothering them when they are busy.
I just wondered what communication to families has been like in other homes during lockdown or even at normal times?
I’m thinking I might email them to try and get a bit information but obviously don’t want to come across as critical as I know how hard they work.
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Littlemiss74 · 09/06/2020 17:41
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