What do you do when you and you're dh have completely different opinions on the virus and lockdown easing? I have quite bad health anxiety so this whole thing has been awful for me, I've barely left the house and dh has done all of the shopping etc. I've stuck to lockdown 100% blah blah blah.
So anyway now it seems to be easing a bit dh keeps telling me we need to "get back to normal" but I don't think we do unless it's within the guidelines. I sent the kids back to school on Monday they are doing 3 days a week and that was a massive thing for me but I had to do it for them. This seems to have been his green light for us to get back to normal.
He wants his two kids and their partners to come over for takeaway tomorrow night (they are 22 and 25) but I've said no because the rules are garden only and the weather is going to be shit. They haven't been sticking to lockdown or social distancing too much and both were in friends houses last weekend. His daughter has now been on the phone crying that she isn't allowed over and it's all my fault 🙄 It's his birthday on the 20th and he wants a bbq with a few friends and their wives but there will be about 12 of us and if the weather turns I can't tell them they can't come in the house? Our friends have invited us over Sunday and have said if the weather is rubbish then they will cook and the kids can play but obviously all inside, he has said yes to this but I don't want to go.
As far as I'm concerned lockdown isn't over but for him it's all done and if we catch Covid then so be it (I'm a bit fat so I'm worried about catching it as well).
Am I overreacting? Do I just stand my ground or do I give in? I can see so many arguments happening.
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Wilberforce1 · 05/06/2020 22:14
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