Contact with ex husband/DD

[whatsnext2]

Rather coercive ex is insisting would be OK to pick up daughter and drive her from Bristol to Brighton and then meet up with a whole of load of multiple people including his new partner, her daughter, her sister and family and workmates.

I think this breaks several guidelines but not sure about where parent contact stands. He has been a pretty absent father so far and only since lockdown has he got keen on seeing her.

Anyone clearer on guidelines?

[houseplantlover]

Absolutely fucking not. He can have contact at or near your home, I wouldn't want my kid over 100 miles away mixing with other households, breaking lockdown rules and potentially getting sick while that far away from me. Tell him to get to fuck.