So DF is only coming up to his 50s and generally healthy/works is in good shape and active - this is relevant so no one assumes he might be elderly and/or of limited faculties.
I know him and DM have been missing seeing their only DGC - my DCs as they haven't seen them since about 2 weeks before lockdown begun. I've seen them about 3 times from a distance either through their fence or from end of driveway and had a quick chat.
Video chatting is a bit limited as DCs are both under 5 so attention span is non existent and they have a minute on and run off to play.
Spoke to DF today and he asked if I've maybe thought about coming over with DCs soon, I pointed out that we are still partly in lockdown (me and DH either WFH/furloughed and just pop out for groceries and are otherwise staying put) and we will have to wait and see what gets announced.
The thing is I know even if I popped over and the plan was to keep DCs in the garden so DPs can see them through the window/have a little chat and socially distance I know for a fact they would find an excuse to come out and ignore the distancing/open the bifold Windows and sooner or later break the rules to suit themselves.
So I basically said let's wait and see what the announcements bring. DF said its fine to visit as we are all related and have and I quote "the same antibodies" as each other so we and DCs would cope fine if we did catch it - he thinks he has already had it earlier in the year (which is a possibility) and recovered ok so there shouldn't be a risk.
AIBU to think this is a completely bonkers statement?! I asked him how can he say something like that like its a fact and he said he has been on this earth quite a few more years than me and knows some things.
To me he's basically saying his need to see my DCs trumps their health and wellbeing because and I quote again "even if they did catch it they'd be fine and recover because we all have the same antibodies" .
I am currently sat here wondering if lockdown has made him loose his mind...
Not to mention
- he's still working so not isolating or really self distancing with colleagues (self employed)
- he cannot be certain he did have it
Am I overreacting?