How would you decide whose view is most important? The anxious one or none anxious one?
DH has been very very anxious about COVID. His measures, in my opinion are extreme, but I have gone along with it as he isn't doing any harm. A few examples include sanitising shoes after going for a walk, wiping down all things that come into the house, even if they have been isolated in the car for 2/3 days first and wiping door handles etc after a shopping delivery.
The issue - we both agree that June 1st is too soon and we need to wait to see what the data looks like after a few weeks of the restrictions being eased. DH would be happy keeping the kids home until September, whereas I would seriously consider July depending on data. Our youngest starts reception in September and I feel 6 months with no social interaction is going to be a serious problem. She is already behind emotionally and so this is a big concern. My eldest is coping pretty well but he really needs some time out the house and if the risk is low enough, I would be happy for him to attend.
So far I have gone along with DH to ease his anxiety and I have been happy to do so. I wouldn't be happy to keep the kids at home until September though if it safe to do so earlier. Whose viewpoint holds more importance here?
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Teacher12345 · 16/05/2020 07:15
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