Before anyone jumps on me, I'm not planning on doing so. We used to live basically together but have lived apart for the last year, as he moved back in with his mum and brother when his mum's cancer returned. Sadly she passed and he's still there with his brother (who he can't stand). He has his own business there & now a full time job (he's technically classed as a key worker as he's making things for hospitals). He was going to move in with me, at least prior to lock down, but then got the job.
I appreciate that people all miss different people - be it friends, family or OH. I really miss my family and friends, but with family I only see them every 3-4 months now anyway. My best friend is shielded so god knows how that will work 😔
I think I miss my boyfriend most of all though, as I'm not a naturally an affectionate person outside of romantic relationships. I'm not cold by any means, but my family are not very cuddly so I've always been a bit more reserved except for close friends and romantic partners.
I'm also furloughed and my flatmates have left to return home so it's been tough being alone. I'd say I like time alone, but I'm also used to quite a hectic lifestyle in the city so everything feels terribly... flat now.
I think it's tough because I keep comparing everything I'd usually doing with what's going on now. I'm not particularly bothered about going to mass gatherings or anything like that but I really want to see the people I love. Me and my boyfriend are used to long distance, but we were seeing each other every 1-4 weeks so always something to look forward to.
I think my main worry stems from the fact that my parents are 170 miles away and my boyfriend is 100 miles. My Dad drives, but my boyfriend doesn't and the thought of six months apart or until a vaccine is unbearable. Especially as we'd both really leant on each other during my mum's MH problems and his mother's death. 😔
Not asking for any predictions on when people think we'll be able to see each other again, but just wondered how everyone else is dealing with this as I'm guessing not everyone lives in the same city or house as their OH?
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Bramblebear92 · 27/04/2020 22:58
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