In a bit of a shit situation. I am out at work from 8.30am till 7pm five days a week. My bf is working from my house to help with childcare as I cannot work from home. The logistics of getting DS to and from "school" are far to complicated around my hours and location.
DS is very stubborn and just digs his heels in over schoolwork. He refuses point blank to do any of the activities I set out for him - from breakfast and showering to drawing/painting to actual work set online by his teacher. BF is trying to get him involved but he has a work schedule to keep to himself.
This has resulted in DS going into terrible moods, sleeping half the day and getting up in the middle of the night to sneak onto his playstation/tablet/tv.
I come home and he is either asleep or upset that DP hasn't let him have any screentime (rightly so when he refuses to do anything at all that isn't xbox or youtube).
I write a small list/loose timetable each day with activities for him and rewards for what he manages to complete but he just doesn't care. He and DP both seem totally miserable in each others company and I come home feeling like shit that I can't be here to help.
I'm not particularly concerned about the actual schoolwork, more so the refusal to engage in any activity at all - things he usually enjoys, too.
Does anybody have any advice? Absolute last resort would be to try and make it work for him to attend the school for keyworkers, but I feel this puts us all at even more risk and it would be a logistical nightmare getting him there and back as DP wouldnt be able to help with that.
I feel like I'm failing him, he seems so unhappy and disengaged and I dont want to make life miserable by punishing him and removing fun things.
Can anyone give me any advice?
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BulbTherapy · 19/04/2020 23:17
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