Sorry if this sounds like a stupid question, I need some advice please.
I live with DH and my 14yo DS (DH is DS’s stepdad. Not sure if this is relevant).
DH has a few minor underlying health issues, nothing major and not anything listed on the shielding list, but he isn’t the most healthy person.
We were having a conversation last night about what would happen if, god forbid, DS was to start showing signs of the virus. I know it’s unlikely at the moment because we are all following the social distancing guidelines, but when schools do eventually reopen, if DS gets it, what am I supposed to do about looking after him?
DH thinks DS is old enough to isolate in his room for 7 days, with us leaving meals/drinks etc outside for him to retrieve.
However, I’m not sure I am comfortable with this. I don’t think I could isolate my 14 year old son without checking he is ok, going into his room to take his temperature, etc.
He might not realise how poorly he is or know when to ask for help if he starts to struggle with his breathing etc.
Even though I would be putting myself at greater risk from catching it (and potentially passing it to DH as well) I feel like it is my duty as a mother to look after him.
14 is still fairly young in the scheme of things, and not all teens are sensible enough or wise enough to know what to do or when to seek further help.
Please don’t think DH is uncaring, he really isn’t, and the two of them have a great relationship.
Maybe he is being sensible and I need to loosen the apron strings. But DS is my only child and I just don’t know if I could just leave him to it.
What would you do?
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hippohector · 16/04/2020 19:36
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