Please help me.
DS is locked down with me.
We have vulnerable family member who cannot isolate indefinitely in one room. They can move to an empty home in 4-6 weeks.
Till that time DS wants to stay here.
Ex putting pressure on me to keep “normal shared care” (70/30).
I’d rather DS could keep normal plan but I don’t want to add risk to my vulnerable family member, however small the risk is.
Ex telling me that both parents should decide what’s best for the child. I don’t disagree with this but this is an exceptional (short term) situation and my DS is happy here.
Can you offer me some advice on this?
DS has open phone access on a mobile so can call / FaceTime whenever he wants.
I’ve offered DS to go and lockdown at his Dads till vulnerable family member moved out but he doesn’t want to (siblings and a garden here probably being the main reasons!)
Ex is making me feel awful but I am genuinely just trying to do what keeps people safe.
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ExDH putting pressure on me re: DS
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user47000000000 · 11/04/2020 10:09
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