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Starting to think my body hates me lol

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asteri · 04/11/2009 09:21

Firstly I would like to say thanks to everyone who has read/responded to my previous posts, everyone here seems nice and friendly and really knows their stuff!

Well we have been TTC for a few months now with no luck as yet. Just under a week ago I started to get pains in my boobs (which have come and gone) and cramps a bit like period pain but like a pulling and every so often I feel a wave like im gonna puke not to mention an abundance of EWCM (which usually for me does not happen after mid cycle but theres loads...sorry if thats TMI ). So I took a clearblue test and got what I think was a BFP but as it was a clearblue test and took a while to arrive it may have been an evap line, so the day after I got a FRER and got a BFN. Now, I was testing early so I thought Id give waiting a try.

AF is now three days late and I took another test yesterday and it was negative, only now I keep getting heartburn, am really tired and have a back ache too. as well as lil lumps around my nips (again sorry if TMI).

Why would my body give me all these symptoms if Im not PG? had a blood test at the docs yesterday but now have to wait until Thursday to get the results! grrrrrr! Sorry about the rant, Its just hard being ale to discuss this stuff and how frustrating it is!

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mamster · 04/11/2009 10:47

Well fingers crossed for you on Thursday. Not long now.

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asteri · 04/11/2009 11:58

It just seems like an awfully long wait eeek!

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mamster · 04/11/2009 13:40

Try to busy yourself. It'll soon pass. With my first DS I did a test (early) that was negative and I turned out to be pregnant. If you are not though don't be disheartened. Be prepared for both responses and if it's a no then plan a new approach. Good luck.

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asteri · 04/11/2009 15:17

Thanks mamster, im just hoping that maybe its just early and so there isnt enough to pick up yet.

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asteri · 05/11/2009 11:54

Thanks everyone but, got my blood test results today, negative, god this is so hard, I just wish the sodding witch would show up so I would at least know where I am to try again now.

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mamster · 05/11/2009 20:45

Sorry to hear that. Do you normally have irregular periods? I did and it made the trying difficult! Once we tried every day in the possible fertile zone. We made 11 days. Was aiming for about 21 I think. Didn't happen that month. But it did the month after (3 times a week during possible fertile period).

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asteri · 06/11/2009 08:30

Hi Mamster,
My cycle is ALWAYS 28 days, my periods have always arrived like clockwork, I always used to joke that they were one of the few things in life I could rely on lol, which is what makes this so frustrating, as how do I know theres not anything "gone wrong" with me and if not I dont know where to start my cycle day from to figure out this months fertile days, so looks like im in for an exhausting month.......

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