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Condom split on 19 September - still no period, am I silly to think I may be pregnant?

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Jigsawgirl Wed 14-Oct-09 18:36:50

I think the first day of my last period was 11th Sept. Last had sex on 19th Sept, and the condom split. Thought about getting MAP but then had a family disaster over the weekend and forgot! Haven't had a period since. Am quite worried as have a nearly 3yr old and nearly 6 yr old daughters.

Having spent the last 2 yrs really wanting another and my DH not, had finally got my head round not having any more and also decided that we can't really afford any more (I know thats not a pc thing to say).

So, now keep thinking my period will come each day, I feel like its started and then it is just more normal discharge (god, I hate that word).

Have not dared broach the possibility with DH, not sure what he will say. Have given myself until the weekend to get a Preg test. My periods have always been really regular, but my last daughter was concieved straight after the end of a period - I didn't realise until I had an argument about dates with Obstetric Specialist that you can ovulate twice in a month!

Any thoughts?

FanjolinaJolie Wed 14-Oct-09 20:13:17

How long is your cycle usually?

Might be an idea to test if you are late already?

lou031205 Wed 14-Oct-09 20:23:34

I would say yes. You had sex on day 8, which means viable sperm could be present until day 15.

girlsyearapart Wed 14-Oct-09 20:27:11

yes you could be. take a test.then come back and tell us the result!
If you are it won't be the end of the world if you had wanted another...

Jigsawgirl Wed 14-Oct-09 20:57:20

Oh blimey! Wasn't sure if I was worrying for no reason and had got my numbers muddled with how long cycles are ment to be etc!
I think I will wait until the weekend to test, it may give some time to think about what to say to DH. Thanks for all your comments, it's helped as I can think of nothing else now!

Jigsawgirl Fri 16-Oct-09 23:25:28

Have done test and it's positive. Just wanted to let you know. Am still trying to get my head round it .

CarGirl Fri 16-Oct-09 23:27:06

I was coming on to post that my accident like that is now 12 (I took the MAP too though!)

Hope you and your dh work through this okay.

brockleybelle Sat 17-Oct-09 00:32:16

so there's a new chapter you didn't see coming. how has dh reacted?

Dalrymps Sat 17-Oct-09 08:47:16

Been following this.. Congratulations. Hope you manage to get used to the idea, must be a shock.

girlsyearapart Sat 17-Oct-09 09:01:47

Oh Goodness..

Congratulations.

How did your Dh take the news?

proudestmummyever Sat 17-Oct-09 13:11:15

Congrats, I was following this post too, but last night my laptop wouldn't let me commenthmm, are u ok? xx

FanjolinaJolie Sat 17-Oct-09 18:01:34

Oh, congrats to you!!! Are you OK with it all? And DH too?

We are TTC no3 so I am thrilled for you, it's very exciting and your 'big girls' will love having a little baby to fuss over.

lou031205 Sat 17-Oct-09 18:03:20

Congratulations!

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