DH and I are late thirties and have been ttc for a year now - recently he has been having probs with going soft. We have a dd already, we're knackered and are trying to target sex to fit ovulation dates.
I know, that we should just chill out and have as much sex as possible, but it happened again this month and now he is going away for a couple of days. I feel really gutted and frustrated as it's the third month it has happened, but obviously would never say that to him, as I don't want to hurt him.
Has anyone else had this problem? What should we do?
Thanks Claire, I thought it must be a common-ish problem. We got pg with dd in the first month of trying so I had no idea that it could take so long, but I guess that's the difference between being 35 and 38
Sorry you're in this situation - it sucks. I just ruined the beginning of a holiday by insisting on sex on the morning we were leaving, and DH not being able to perform because of my 'removing all the fun out of it', cue much misery on both sides. Feel so guilty and scared at what I'm doing to our relationship. No more expressly TTC sex for a while for us, I think. It's very tough.