i'm exhausted and miserable by our TTC saga - three miscarriages, a load of tests showing nothing, and now we're trying again and all the ovulation sticks and folic acid and carefully timed sex is really getting me down.
i know it's nothing at all compared to what other people have gone through but i'd really appreciate some advice on how people cope with the downsides of having this totally unspontaneous type of sex. my DH does everything he can to make it pleasurable for me but i find it really difficult.
i got a positive ovulation test yesterday so was all excited that we had a chance again, but my DH went off to the pub to meet a friend and came back having had a few pints. when he came back he was very willing, but not, ahem, entirely able to deliver I am gutted - another month wasted - but know i should try to be understanding. he is not a selfish man and knows how much this means to me and is also desperate for me to get pregnant but the pressure got to him i think. every time we have a set back i feel the pressure mounting, and the sex gets worse. how do we get through this?
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does anyone else hate TTC sex? desperate for advice
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kissmummy · 20/08/2009 09:27
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