We've been ttc for a year now. its been a stressful year for me (for unrelated reasons) so part of me's not too worried yet that there's a problem. I try so hard not to get stressed about not being pregnant yet, and most of the time i am getting on with and enjoying life. but every so often the pain just comes bubbling up to the surface . I've been broody since I was about 17 on and off, but was so careful not to get pregnant until I was in a sensible position (29, good job, married, no debt).
I'm just really struggling at the minute to cope with seeing friends and relatives get pregnant the first /second month of trying, or 'accidentally', and now they're babies being born, all in the space of time when we've been trying. got yet another weekend awat coming up in a couple of weeks time and found out dh's cousin is going to be there with his little baby, and i'm just not sure i can bear it. i am of course pleased for them, but i'm so tired of being pleased for people. dh is really close to his cousin and would really like to see them as they live pretty much the other end of the country(and the rest of the family that will be there), but i'm just not sure I can face it.
However, I am worried how dh will react if I tell him this. last time, when I burst in to tears on finding out (by text) that my good friend was 'accidentally' pregnant, he was really angry, and said that by saying i was jealous of her it was like saying that being with him wasn't enough for me. Given the choice, he'd probably wait another year or two to before starting trying, so he's not been the most enthusiastic participant and he certainly doesn't seem gutted that it hasn't happened yet (although he says he will be happy when it does happen).
sorry if all this doesn't make much sense, i'm just really struggling today
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dancingqueeen · 07/08/2009 23:16
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