Hi there i am looking for some advice. Me and my dh have two beautiful boys 3yrs and 6 months and are wondering when the best time to start trying for baby number 3 would be. The main issues are i am 33 which i know is not old but we would like to have 4 kids all together so don't want to wait too long, i am still breastfeeding and not had a period yet and can't remember how long it took for them to return last time???, i lost 2 babies one before first son was born and one before second is this a pattern and likely to happen again???, also don't want my baby to have to grow up too fast is this likely to happen if we don't leave at least two year gap as my mum and various others have said??? Sorry to go on just not sure what to do for the best!