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Wondering will i ever have a baby to call my own :(

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Noleeen Tue 14-Oct-08 08:11:16

Hi, i am new to this and have no idea what i am doing so here goes. I have just siffered my third miscarrige this year. I went off birth control pill at beginning of year, fell pregnant straight away but lost it at 5wks, natural m/c - blighted ovumn. I actually fell pregnant again straight away after this with no period in between, had an early scan at 6wks 5days, saw fetal pol and heartbeat, was so excited from here on in. I went for my next scan at 12wks only to be told it measured 8wks and no longer a h/b, i was completely devastated, i had been tracking the growth of the baby every week and what it would look like only to find out it had died 4wks before, D&C was required this time. I had a period between this and fell pregnant again only to start bleeding again 5days later, natural m/c once again in the form of a chemical pregnancy. I have had blood tests done and so far only got 3 results back, bloodclotting, rubella and one for antibodies all of which have been normal, i am still waiting on another 4. I am 26 years of age and am so scared at the prospect that i will never have a baby of my own. I still think about all 3 m/c BUT it is the 2nd one that has affected me the most and although this happened in July i still get really upset about it. I have no problems getting pregnant, its just holding on to it thats the problem

AttilaTheMeerkat Tue 14-Oct-08 08:19:15

I am very sorry to read what has happened to you.

If you haven't already done so you may wish to talk to the Miscarriage Association as they can also provide support and information:-

Are you now also under the care of a recurrent miscarriage unit?.

NomDePlume Tue 14-Oct-08 08:21:25

Hi Noleen

I'm sorry you've had such a rough time sad.

You have youth on your side, which is an enormous benefit and it sounds like you have a pretty proactive medical team also.

There is a TTC (trying to conceive) after miscarriage thread on here. In fact there are probably several. It might be a good place to start, share your experiences and hopefully get a bit of support from people who have been or are going through the same as you.

Welcome to MN smile

Noleeen Tue 14-Oct-08 08:22:15

Hi, thanks i will take a look at that website. At present i am just waiting on my bloods to come back, if they are normal then i will be refered to the hospital for more thorough tests. I am just so scared that i will never be able to have a child of my own

Noleeen Tue 14-Oct-08 08:26:25

NomDePlume - Thanks for that, i just found it there

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