hi, we've been ttc for several months. I'm 39 and got pg with first baby by accident so wasn't expecting it to be so hard this time. Every month, I've been getting weird phantom pg symptoms, but no joy. This month had particularly bad nausea - but also classic PMT symptoms so was hoping against hope. Sorry if TMI but am due on tomorrow but have just found some brownish mucus-y blood. Not a flow just some spots. Am I being mad to hope this is anything other than the start of my period?