yes am mental. i know. i 'know' when i ovulate. it hurts. tis a long and boring tale. have 2 DDs who are 9 and 11. in 2001 i had an ectopic and tried actively for 3 years after that with no success. then stopped trying and went on the pill for a few years. now stopped taking the pill about a year ago. have avoided shagging aroung ovulation since until the overwhelming need to try again reared its ugly head again. so you see am out of practice with all this TTC business. will try not to obsess too much. ha ha ha.