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11dpo BFN is there still hope?

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siaa · 01/10/2021 19:09

Thought I had a squinter on a FRET at 9dpo and felt like I had similar yesterday (10dpo) and today (11dpo) but not had anything concrete yet. Is there still hope for me this month? I'm finding conflicting responses online!

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siaa · 01/10/2021 19:11

Sorry I meant FRER not FRET!

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siaa · 01/10/2021 20:52

Bump Star

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Honey2 · 01/10/2021 22:11

How sure are you on Ovulation day? I would say at 11dpo you are not out yet. Personally the latest I’ve had a line appear on FRER was 12 dpo. Good luck xx

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siaa · 01/10/2021 22:46

@Honey2 pretty sure, from what I've read it just feels like with FRERs if you've not had a positive by 11dpo there's not much hope left! x

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CommaStop · 02/10/2021 01:17

Absolutely still hope. On my third pregnancy I had a BFN on FRer - nothing, not even a squinter - at 13dpo and then a BFP at 14dpo

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CommaStop · 02/10/2021 01:18

Like you can implant up to 12dpo so more than possible to get a neg at 11dpo and go on to get a positive

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bco96 · 02/10/2021 10:34

I am the exact same! 11DPO today and got nothing yesterday. I was quite sick yesterday and had what I thought was food poisoning last night (woke up at 2am with knots in my belly and so nauseous-- had to make myself throw up). I also slept for 3 hours this afternoon and still so tired. Also normally I get sore boobs just after I OV and this month ive had nothing.. so strange.

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siaa · 02/10/2021 15:32

@CommaStop thank you you've given me a little bit of hope to keep going!

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siaa · 02/10/2021 15:34

@bco96 it's so hard isn't it because you start attributing everything you feel to a possible pregnancy! I have to take progesterone during the TWW as well which can give you all the early symptoms so that doesn't help! Fingers crossed for you x

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SapphosRock · 03/10/2021 12:19

I didn't get line until 15 dpo when pregnant with DD and even then it was so faint could barely see it. She's 6 now Smile

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siaa · 03/10/2021 13:54

@SapphosRock aw that's a lovely story Smile I had a faint line on an IC late this morning so I'm hoping that's the start of something and not a false alarm...

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SapphosRock · 04/10/2021 21:02

Oh wow! Any news today?

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siaa · 04/10/2021 22:57

@SapphosRock nothing and I'm 14dpo today. Think that's probably it for my chances this cycle Sad

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bco96 · 05/10/2021 02:10

I’m the same! AF due in 2 days. We aren’t out until she arrives so fingers crossed xx

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bco96 · 05/10/2021 03:27

I don’t know if I’m imagining this 😂 I swear it’s easier to see in real life. Can’t anyone see a line or do you think I have line eyes?

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bco96 · 05/10/2021 04:25

This is with the contrast altered. I swear I’m going insane 😂

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siaa · 05/10/2021 19:58

@bco96 I do see it and I have had a few of these in the last week, but from the other threads I've read on here and other forums (trust me, I've scoured them all in the last 7 days!!), I think this is what people would call an indent or evap line. This is what I've been getting on and off since last Wednesday so I don't think it's necessarily reliable but fingers crossed for you that it's the start of something! x

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Sexnotgender · 05/10/2021 20:02

[quote siaa]@Honey2 pretty sure, from what I've read it just feels like with FRERs if you've not had a positive by 11dpo there's not much hope left! x[/quote]
My BFN at 11dpo on a FRER is currently sleeping upstairs.

I didn’t get a hint of a line until 12dpo.

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siaa · 05/10/2021 21:48

@Sexnotgender aw that's lovely. I'm 15dpo today and still nothing, unfortunately I have to take progesterone during the TWW which can give you early pregnancy symptoms so it really messes with your head!!

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bco96 · 05/10/2021 22:54

@siaa yep I think so too! I’ve read a lot as well.. fingers crossed for us x

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siaa · 07/10/2021 20:09

@bco96 how you getting on? I've had 2 faint positives this morning but the timing doesn't add up so I have no idea what's going on.

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bco96 · 07/10/2021 22:24

Yay!!! Congrats!! My period is two days late now and too scared to test again..
Your timing seems perfect! X

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siaa · 08/10/2021 07:27

@bco96 just got a negative clearblue digital test first thing this morning so I'm not holding out much hope, seems to be leaping around all over the place!

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bco96 · 08/10/2021 07:34

They do say that the digital tests are not as accurate.. any signs of AF yet? I’m in Aus and it’s afternoon here and still no sign. Might get a test and do it in the morning if it hasn’t come..
fingers crossed for you xx

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bco96 · 08/10/2021 10:42

I mean sensitive, not accurate ☺️

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