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Christmas BFP’s positive thoughts (let’s support each other)

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Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 13:59:26

Hi ladies, have started this thread for anyone that has not had their bfp this month but is going into their next cycle positively hoping for their Christmas or New Years bfp. Let’s support each other..laugh/cry. No such thing as TMI. Let’s celebrate together! Xxx

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2020TTC Sun 08-Nov-20 14:13:56

Joining this thread!

Hi 👋🏻 Me and my husband have been trying this is our 3rd month but I started AF today 😭 so onto Cycle 4..

Wishing us both and anyone who joins this thread baby dust ✨

Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 14:18:22

Hi @2020TTC lovely to meet you. Will be my third cycle of ttc had a chemical last month. Wishing us both and all that join positive thoughts, baby dust and lots of love. I will always be here for anyone to offload xx

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CrazyFooLady Sun 08-Nov-20 16:21:02

Hey ladies,
I had a MC 7 weeks ago and af still hasn't arrived 🤦‍♀️ loads of symptoms that are obviously leading me straight up the garden path to no where as all my tests are negative..... probably the only time in my life that I want to old bitch to turn up 😂😂

Bubblegum20 Sun 08-Nov-20 16:28:33

Hi ladies,
This is my third month of trying since my MMC in August, really hoping for a BFP before Christmas it would be the best present ever!

YouBoggleMyMind Sun 08-Nov-20 16:51:45

Can I join? Just had a failed letrozole cycle and waiting for AF to turn up but it'll be in the next day or so. I really need support as this will be our last before going private for IVF I think 😥

Boredinthehouse12 Sun 08-Nov-20 17:39:48

Hi all, just marking my spot. I had a MMC in August, followed by what I think may have been a chemical in October. I’m currently in the 2WW but I’m pretty sure I’m out this month as we didn’t dtd as much as we should have. Fingers crossed for us all! Xx

Mischi3fManag3d Sun 08-Nov-20 18:00:37

Hello! Can I join please? Have been trying for 7 months since I came off the pill in April and have only had 2 periods since, got diagnosed with pcos in August 🙁 Have been temping though so know I am ovulating before I do have a period, which is a positive.

Hoping we all get a Christmas miracle 🎄

Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 18:05:09

Hi all you lovely people thank you for joining us and of course you can join. Sorry to hear about the loses. Let’s make this a special thread full of Christmas cheer. I am sending out baby dust to us all!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Sohe Sun 08-Nov-20 18:15:00

Hi everyone. Mind if i jump on. AF just finishing up so now CD4 cycle 6. Had two chemicals so far so really hoping for a sticky one this month! Going to try the SMEP plan this month if we can manage it. Also planning on drinking lots of water as I read on fertility friend forum that being well hydrated increases volume of CM. Aiming to test 30/11 or 1/12 if AF stays away! X

Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 18:20:18

Hi @2020TTC @YouBoggleMyMind @Bubblegum20 @Mischi3fManag3d @CrazyFooLady @Boredinthehouse12 @Sohe
So happy you have all joined. Sorry for your loss also @Sohe I had my third chemical last month.
Let’s all get prepared for our sticky beans. 🎉🎄😆🥰

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YouBoggleMyMind Sun 08-Nov-20 18:22:54

Thanks @Idreamof2more
Trying to accept that this cycle hasn't worked and be positive for next after so long is really hard.

Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 18:26:44

@YouBoggleMyMind I could not agree more. It seems so long the whole cycle esp the TWW but I find myself saying to myself right on to the next month we go. I find if I have a positive mindset it helps me through. Let this be a lucky 🍀 thread xxx

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Sohe Sun 08-Nov-20 18:28:47

@Idreamof2more thanks, sorry for your losses aswell! It’s awful isn’t it. I’m trying to not test early anymore. Easier said then done though. Yes I’m really hoping for some sticky ones this cycle! Sticky ones for everyone!! X

YouBoggleMyMind Sun 08-Nov-20 18:31:04

Even more frustrating when my DH hasn't even bothered to ask how I am or if I've tested etc. I feel quite alone tbh.

LT103 Sun 08-Nov-20 18:32:56

I’m not out this month yet but I’m around 540dpo with bfn so it has to end soon! Would looove a Christmas bfp!!!! Would just be the best present for us and our families after a fairly rubbish year all round!!!
Fingers crossed we get lots of bfps!!!!!!!

Mischi3fManag3d Sun 08-Nov-20 18:38:20

Thanks @Idreamof2more hoping we all get some positive vibes from this thread 😊

Sorry for your losses @Sohe @Boredinthehouse12 and @Bubblegum20 💐

Sorry to hear you’re feeling alone @YouBoggleMyMind, I can completely relate to the partner not even asking- they’re totally useless at times and don’t understand how mentally tiring it is for us 🙁 my partner just keeps saying ‘it’ll happen when it’s meant to’ not helpful! I hope he pulls his act together to support you soon

Mischi3fManag3d Sun 08-Nov-20 18:43:46

Sorry for your loss too @Idreamof2more! Keeping everything crossed we all get some super sticky beans 🤞

YouBoggleMyMind Sun 08-Nov-20 18:46:16

I know he's prolly avoiding asking cos he already knows it's not worked and I'm a bloody misery cos of it. I still need support though! It's his disappointment just as much as mine sad

Leonberger Sun 08-Nov-20 18:51:40

Can I join please?

Been TTC number 2 since June. One chemical last month and nothing else. Currently CD2.

Hoping for some good luck for everyone this month!

Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 18:57:41

Hi @Leonberger of course you can the more the merrier. Men can be awful can’t they @YouBoggleMyMind mine never asks how I am at all about anything. He’s so not in tune with my emotions.
Least we have each other here to talk.
People can message me anytime too. Xxx

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YouBoggleMyMind Sun 08-Nov-20 19:19:27

I suspect he is scared to ask cos I'm a crazy bitch full of PMS! Haha 😆

We are trying for baby no2. DS didn't come easy so very resentful we are in the same position again 😐

NamechangeTTC Sun 08-Nov-20 19:22:26

Hello folks! Joining in too. Went to a psychic who told me I’d be pregnant this year and am not holding out hope!

Cycle 5 trying. 3 dpo.

Idreamof2more Sun 08-Nov-20 19:26:42

@YouBoggleMyMind well I can certainly relate
to the crazy ass pms! I literally turn into a psycho 🤣. In all seriousness must be tough on you both. Just try and keep positive as best as you can. It will happen.
Hi @NamechangeTTC well the year isn’t out yet...this could be your month if not join us in the Christmas baby boom. Have everything crossed for you for this month and anyone else here yet to see if this is there month!!
Love our little group is growing! Christmas wishes for us all 🎄🥰

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Leonberger Sun 08-Nov-20 19:36:52

I went a bit crazy with DH too. I got pregnant first time last time so I didn’t expect a problem but I’m 5 cycles in now confused
Hopefully it will happen soon, I’m sick of symptom checking and trying to decide if I’m ovulating or not grin

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