So in January this year, I lost a baby due to an abusive relationship and domestic violence. I've never really got over it although I've tried counselling and self-help books.
Since then, I'm in a new relationship. We've been together 3 months and I'm 18, he's 28. He's always wanted to have a child because he is nearly 30 and his mother is terminally ill so he wanted her to meet her grandchild. I've always wanted to have a child even more since losing my daughter this year. I know I'm young and I know that we haven't been together long but it's just on my mind constantly.
This past week he's been acting really strangely and wouldn't have sex with me and I couldn't work out why.
This morning he admitted that he didn't want a baby anymore at the moment because he wants a new job and a new place to live. I understand this. But I am just devastated that he went from trying for a baby to the opposite without even telling me. I just don't know how to react. What should I do?
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Chascha18 · 31/10/2020 09:45
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