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8 dpo BFN first response

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 12:25

Hi all, I am 8 dpo today or possibly 7 as can’t be sure what day I ovulated. Got smiley face 30/8. Dtd 31/8 and 1/9. Was determined to wait until my period was day late to test but couldn’t resist today as heard some people get bfp as early as 8 dpo. Feel so sad now and angry for not waiting. Anyone else in same boat. Just pray this is my month.

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unCliche · 08/09/2020 12:37

I did the same and tested early this week and of course, got a BFN! I'm 9 DPO today so just hoping that by the time my period is due that I'll get a BFP. Have you had any implantation symptoms?

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 12:54

No none at all. Just feel normal. Trying to tell myself it’s not my month just don’t feel pregnant. Hate the bloody wait.
Hope you get your bfp!!! 🥰

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TeaSoakedDisasterMagnet · 08/09/2020 13:07

You might not even implant until day 6-8 so it would be far too early to detect hcg. It’s only triggered once implantation happens.

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unCliche · 08/09/2020 13:13

Thanks @Jaysdream7! @TeaSoakedDisasterMagnet is right! If you implanted today then you'd need to give it a few more days for hcg to be detected. Plus implantation usually happens between 6 - 12 DPO so you might have a little bean floating around at the moment just waiting for the right time to snuggle in! Could be today, could be in four days so there's still plenty of hope to be had!

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:04

Thanks girls I caved and did a test this am stupid I know. I can’t see anything but my sis can. I’m not testing again until Friday.

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unCliche · 08/09/2020 15:10

I feel like I can see a hint of a line!

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:13

I can’t see it 🤣. Oh well guess we will have to wait and see. Prob nothing xx

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:13

Hiya ladies just give it a few days more before u test x im also on my 2 week wait im not sure to be honest with u how many dpo i am but about 3 days ago i had like really bad period cramps it felt like tightenings around my ovaries almost as if it was bleeding type then this morning had sharp pains in my cervix. Which also felt as if it was tightly closed, However not all women feel any pain at all if u are in early pregnancy. When are u looking to test again

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:15

Friday I think. Fingers crossed for you though xxx

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:16

Jaysdream7 i have found that the superdrug brand is also good as well for early detection

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:19

Aww maybe I will get those Friday! Thank you xx

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:19

Thankyou, u too hun i have had about 3 chemicals already so i wont be testing early even thou its hard not tooo

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:20

Your very welcome they seem to be 10 ml i always use them

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unCliche · 08/09/2020 15:20

Hi @Brightlightangels! I'm definitely waiting until the weekend before I test. I too had lots of ovary pain after ovulation - it felt like one sided ovulation cramps but they've stayed with me every single day since I've ovulated. But now my cramps are much more central. Could mean something, could mean nothing Grin

@Jaysdream7 if there's a line, two more days should get it dark enough for you to see it! So maybe try again on Thursday?

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unCliche · 08/09/2020 15:22

@Brightlightangels

Thankyou, u too hun i have had about 3 chemicals already so i wont be testing early even thou its hard not tooo

Sorry to hear about this! Sending baby dust your way! When is AF due?
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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:23

Dont be deflated im sure u will get your bfp wen are u due on

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:26

Sending baby dust straight back at yaa xx mine is due 20 so will see . Yes but it could well mean something is happen down there mother nature works in a clever way

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Sohe · 08/09/2020 15:32

@Jaysdream7 Hi? I’m the same as you. DPO 8 or 7 (not 100% sure coz my two apps vary by one day) took a test this morning has I was having cramps yesterday and this morning. Only an IC coz I knew it was too early and I’m not wasting my FRER. BFN. Apart from the cramps I also have increased CM, sometimes I think my boobs are sore but other times I think I’m imagining it. I’m tired, but I’m always tired 🙈. Had all these symptoms last month aswell so trying not to look too much into it. To top it all I have a short Luteal phase to have a few more days to wait really.

I’m with you. In hoping not to test for a few days now. AF is due friday or Saturday so I’m hoping to hold off til then, but I can almost guarantee I will be back here tomorrow or Thursday! I’m also a pregnancy test hoarder so I have loads to tempt me. I have three or four digitals, two FRER and 20 ICs. Got a bit carried away! X

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:38

Uncliche what other symptoms do u have hun.LOVE your name ha ha thats my daughter first name cliche

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1940s · 08/09/2020 15:42

@Brightlightangels your daughter is called Cliche?

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:43

Nice to know others are in the same boat. Will retest Friday as mum having my youngest. Might save my FMU and carry it Superdrug 😃🤣

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:45

Lets keep this thread going would like to hear more of your symptoms as the days go on and all the out comes

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:46

@ uncliche lol yes really

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Brightlightangels · 08/09/2020 15:56

When i was pregnant with my daughter i never had no symptoms especially in the beginning. later on i was craving McDonalds and had itchy boobs. With my son during the 2ww i had a lot of symptoms constantly going wee increased hunger along with craving bananas sleeping a lot,discharge then i done a test on the Thursday because i was due on fri and had 2 strong lines

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unCliche · 08/09/2020 15:57

@Brightlightangels

Uncliche what other symptoms do u have hun.LOVE your name ha ha thats my daughter first name cliche

Oh cuteee! Does it have a specific meaning in another language or you liked the way it sounds? I definitely think it would be pretty for a name.

Oh my symptoms have been interesting and strange but I'm taking into account that as I've just started using Pregnacare vitamins, it might be affecting my cycle.

But from 2DPO to 5DPO I had constant cramping on the right side by my ovaries. Then 6DPO to 7DPO the pain moved and become constant on the right side of my lower back sort of opposite where my ovaries are. Yesterday (8DPO) the cramps then became central and low like AF cramps. But throughout the cycle I've also experienced A LOT of trapped wind and very emotional days crying for no reason. I also made a meal yesterday that I felt tasted disgusting to me but my DH said it tasted fine so that could be a symptom too. Also had a sore throat and randomly blocked nose yesterday night! Haha I feel like I've felt everything!
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