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Am I out?

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donewithbeingpreg · 26/07/2020 11:15

My partner and I have been trying for baby #2 this month, and so far (according to my apps estimate) I am around 11dpo today.

I've been taking FRER tests almost everyday since about 7dpo and all negative. I keep seeing what I THINK are lines, but weren't because today it was exactly the same. I think my eyes are making lines.

My period is 3- 5 days late (not entirely sure)
I've been getting loads of pregnancy symptoms, and no sign of period coming as my usual period symptoms are not there.

Again, I'm 11dpo and a first response test is negative. Am I out this month??? :(

Am I out?
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pinklady1207 · 26/07/2020 11:54

I had 2 lines on 2 FRER’s last month and wasn’t pregnant, from reading this is becoming quite common from them Confused Try a digital, no squinting needed then x

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Curiosity101 · 26/07/2020 13:00

I'm not sure you can be 11DPO and 3-5 days late on your period at the same time. If you were then it would make your luteal phase (the time between ovulation and your period) 6-8 days long. Normally the day a person ovulates each month can vary, but the luteal phase tends to be consistent. The average luteal phase length is 12-14 days. So you may not be late yet.

Is your DPO only an estimate or did you do some tests to confirm it?

My hope/guess is that you ovulated late and therefore are testing too early. And you're certainly not out unless your period arrives.

Good luck!

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donewithbeingpreg · 26/07/2020 17:28

So yeah the ovulation was just an estimate. But from the days after that, I was actually taking ovulation tests and they were negative so I must have ovulated before then. My cycles are shorter than average but still fertile so my period was due 3 days ago ish

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donewithbeingpreg · 26/07/2020 17:29

Unless, sad to say, I didn't ovulate at all and my period is just irregular this month :(

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RMarieClaire · 26/07/2020 17:32

It does sound like either you ovulated late and so you're likely to have a longer cycle, or your luteal phase is short, which can hinder fertility.

I'd say if you're 11dpo go by that not the fact you're late and test again in a couple of days. Sometimes implantion doesn't happen till 12dpo.

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SummerPeony · 26/07/2020 17:33

How soon after ovulation does your period usually start?

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donewithbeingpreg · 26/07/2020 17:42

Thank you, and thank you for your quick response :) I've ran out of tests so I'll try again in 2 days (if i can be patient enough lol)

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mummy2myJJ · 26/07/2020 17:45

Nope, you're not out yet! Trying for baby number 2 since June , I tested Tuesday and got BFN and today got a BFP with a FRER and CB predicts 2-3 weeks... give it a few days and try another test, good luck xx

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donewithbeingpreg · 26/07/2020 18:17

Thank you, and congratulations!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏼 xx

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