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9dpo and cramping ttc driving myself mad hoping this is baby number 2 on the way

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Nls90x · 24/07/2020 19:20

Hi everyone,

As above 9 days dpo and experiencing cramps. Stupidly bought 20 one step tests online and have been secretly testing every morning for two days.

Recently had a chemical I have a 19 month old and we are ready for bundle of joy number 2 .

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

For all those trying I wish you all baby dust in the world :) :) :) I just needed to get it out there Grin x

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 14:14

Same dpo as me I am weeing in everything possible 😂🤦🏻‍♀️
Had a miscarriage with twins 8 weeks ago not got any children and left all this until 41 years old!!! What a prat!!! Can be a test buddy if you like!!!

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Curiosity101 · 25/07/2020 14:23

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

Yep! We're not TTC yet but I imagine I'll be exactly the same now I've found one step tests. Grin

Wishing you luck for this month.

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sindylouwho · 25/07/2020 14:34

This is me. I'm 8dpo today. Still been testing the past few days. I'm going out of my mind.

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 15:27

@sindylouwho
Yes me too seem obsessed weeing in sticks but not due on until next week so probably just messing with my own mind!!!
Are you testing everyday? Xx

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 16:21

@Kitkatb0808
@sindylouwho
Hey I eventually have some friends on my thread lol
Yes I would love to be test buddies!
I’ve been testing every morning I really don’t want to but can’t help myself I had a chemical beginning of June which made us realise we were ready for another one the OH wants another one but doesn’t know I’m testing everyday.
I’m going to try not to tomorrow I googled the earliest I should test is Monday so I’ll have a day off tomorrow or so i say 😂

Wishing you both lots of baby dust xx

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 16:23

@Curiosity101 it didn’t tag you in above post wasn’t leaving you out :) :)

Also sorry to hear about the twins @Kitkatb0808 x

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sindylouwho · 25/07/2020 16:41

I've been testing since Wednesday. I can't help myself. Lol

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 17:26

@sindylouwho

I've been testing since Wednesday. I can't help myself. Lol

@sindylouwho I keep telling myself to have a day off I have 7 tests left from 20 I bought. Part of me is saying wait a few days and use them other half of me is like just buy 20 more we will need them lol xx
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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 17:26

Well the odds say one of us will get a bfp at least ........... 😝

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 17:27

Made me laugh 😂 I have bought 30 think I am officially nuts 🥜 xx

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 17:30

@Kitkatb0808

Made me laugh 😂 I have bought 30 think I am officially nuts 🥜 xx

Well if I buy 20 more it means I'll have bought 40 if that makes you feel any better 😂😂 xx
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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 17:40

@Nls90x
Would appreciate it!!!
Trying to open wee hide them to dispose of them is also becoming new normal as boris would say!!!
Other half said today think you may be pregnant again test next week that threw me 😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️ If only you knew dear.............!!

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 17:58

@Kitkatb0808 I feel the need to do another test already I know I'll be doing another tomorrow why not 😂 is it for sure the new normal!

I'm so glad I have you with me I haven't even had a slight faint yet will upload any pics if I get that fat fingers crossed. Xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 18:08

@nls90x

No nor me either!! Do you feel any symptoms as of yet? X

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 18:10

@Nls90x
And I am only 7 dpo 😞 such a fool x

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 18:14

@Kitkatb0808
I'm either 9 or 10 Dpo not a thing as of yet , no sore boobs.
I have had cramps on and off for a few days , bad head but I don't know if it's related.
My cervix is still high so that's a good thing I guess? But they say you can't rely on that.
My cycle is short so I can be anywhere from 20-24 today is day 20.
Have you had any symptoms?
I wish I could just wait another week but I can't once I start I can't stop 🤦🏽‍♀️ xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 18:22

@Nls90x

No in a word after the miscarriage it’s almost like my body has shut out symptoms I actually can’t remember feeling anything last time and that was only 8 weeks ago!
Back ache little niggles here and there but I am old 😂😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 18:34

Well we aren't doing anything by testing :) i hope this is a good month for us xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 25/07/2020 19:10

@Nls90x

I guess so tomorrow?!! 😂😂😝

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Nls90x · 25/07/2020 19:32

@Kitkatb0808 😂😂 I don't think there is any other way to start my day now.

Here's hoping a faint line may appear tomorrow fingers crossed 🤞🏽 xx

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sindylouwho · 25/07/2020 19:50

I'll be taking a test tomorrow because I can't help myself. I've had some light cramping on and off all week. My boobs feel worse tonight. I'm either 8/9dpo tomorrow.

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Nls90x · 26/07/2020 09:31

Morning ladies how are you all?

I took a test this morning still BFN :(

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Kitkatb0808 · 26/07/2020 10:12

@Nls90x

Me too 😒 don’t know why I do it to myself!!!
When is af due for you I am next Friday I think......! Xx

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Nls90x · 26/07/2020 10:17

@Kitkatb0808 since coming off the pill I seem to have a very short cycle I can be anywhere from 21 days which is tomorrow to 26 days :(

So this week will be the week AF will come if it's going to xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 26/07/2020 10:26

@Nls90x

We are literally in this together 😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️X

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