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9dpo and cramping ttc driving myself mad hoping this is baby number 2 on the way

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Nls90x Fri 24-Jul-20 19:20:28

Hi everyone,

As above 9 days dpo and experiencing cramps. Stupidly bought 20 one step tests online and have been secretly testing every morning for two days.

Recently had a chemical I have a 19 month old and we are ready for bundle of joy number 2 .

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

For all those trying I wish you all baby dust in the world smile smile smile I just needed to get it out there grin x

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Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 14:14:45

Same dpo as me I am weeing in everything possible 😂🤦🏻‍♀️
Had a miscarriage with twins 8 weeks ago not got any children and left all this until 41 years old!!! What a prat!!! Can be a test buddy if you like!!!

Curiosity101 Sat 25-Jul-20 14:23:20

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

Yep! We're not TTC yet but I imagine I'll be exactly the same now I've found one step tests. grin

Wishing you luck for this month.

sindylouwho Sat 25-Jul-20 14:34:47

This is me. I'm 8dpo today. Still been testing the past few days. I'm going out of my mind.

Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 15:27:46

Yes me too seem obsessed weeing in sticks but not due on until next week so probably just messing with my own mind!!!
Are you testing everyday? Xx

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 16:21:46

Hey I eventually have some friends on my thread lol
Yes I would love to be test buddies!
I’ve been testing every morning I really don’t want to but can’t help myself I had a chemical beginning of June which made us realise we were ready for another one the OH wants another one but doesn’t know I’m testing everyday.
I’m going to try not to tomorrow I googled the earliest I should test is Monday so I’ll have a day off tomorrow or so i say 😂

Wishing you both lots of baby dust xx

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Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 16:23:18

@Curiosity101 it didn’t tag you in above post wasn’t leaving you out smile smile

Also sorry to hear about the twins @Kitkatb0808 x

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sindylouwho Sat 25-Jul-20 16:41:22

I've been testing since Wednesday. I can't help myself. Lol

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 17:26:15


I've been testing since Wednesday. I can't help myself. Lol

@sindylouwho I keep telling myself to have a day off I have 7 tests left from 20 I bought. Part of me is saying wait a few days and use them other half of me is like just buy 20 more we will need them lol xx

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Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 17:26:40

Well the odds say one of us will get a bfp at least ........... 😝

Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 17:27:38

Made me laugh 😂 I have bought 30 think I am officially nuts 🥜 xx

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 17:30:19


Made me laugh 😂 I have bought 30 think I am officially nuts 🥜 xx

Well if I buy 20 more it means I'll have bought 40 if that makes you feel any better 😂😂 xx

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Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 17:40:54

Would appreciate it!!!
Trying to open wee hide them to dispose of them is also becoming new normal as boris would say!!!
Other half said today think you may be pregnant again test next week that threw me 😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️ If only you knew dear.............!!

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 17:58:59

@Kitkatb0808 I feel the need to do another test already I know I'll be doing another tomorrow why not 😂 is it for sure the new normal!

I'm so glad I have you with me I haven't even had a slight faint yet will upload any pics if I get that fat fingers crossed. Xx

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Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 18:08:57


No nor me either!! Do you feel any symptoms as of yet? X

Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 18:10:15

And I am only 7 dpo 😞 such a fool x

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 18:14:37

I'm either 9 or 10 Dpo not a thing as of yet , no sore boobs.
I have had cramps on and off for a few days , bad head but I don't know if it's related.
My cervix is still high so that's a good thing I guess? But they say you can't rely on that.
My cycle is short so I can be anywhere from 20-24 today is day 20.
Have you had any symptoms?
I wish I could just wait another week but I can't once I start I can't stop 🤦🏽‍♀️ xx

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Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 18:22:48


No in a word after the miscarriage it’s almost like my body has shut out symptoms I actually can’t remember feeling anything last time and that was only 8 weeks ago!
Back ache little niggles here and there but I am old 😂😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 18:34:09

Well we aren't doing anything by testing smile i hope this is a good month for us xx

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Kitkatb0808 Sat 25-Jul-20 19:10:37


I guess so tomorrow?!! 😂😂😝

Nls90x Sat 25-Jul-20 19:32:20

@Kitkatb0808 😂😂 I don't think there is any other way to start my day now.

Here's hoping a faint line may appear tomorrow fingers crossed 🤞🏽 xx

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sindylouwho Sat 25-Jul-20 19:50:03

I'll be taking a test tomorrow because I can't help myself. I've had some light cramping on and off all week. My boobs feel worse tonight. I'm either 8/9dpo tomorrow.

Nls90x Sun 26-Jul-20 09:31:27

Morning ladies how are you all?

I took a test this morning still BFN sad

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Kitkatb0808 Sun 26-Jul-20 10:12:20


Me too 😒 don’t know why I do it to myself!!!
When is af due for you I am next Friday I think......! Xx

Nls90x Sun 26-Jul-20 10:17:39

@Kitkatb0808 since coming off the pill I seem to have a very short cycle I can be anywhere from 21 days which is tomorrow to 26 days sad

So this week will be the week AF will come if it's going to xx

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