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Lauralouise2 Sun 05-Jul-20 18:09:11

I know I’m going to sound daft and it’s probably very obvious who the father is but my mind is just running over time and would just like reassurance..

Me and my partner broke up in November and I slept with someone else on the 18th of that month then on 21st November me and my partner got back together around the end of November, me and my partner slept together on the 9th, 11th and 16th Feb.. My due date is the 4th November!

Is it definitely my partners baby? Please no judging but just needs some reassurance. Thanks

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Aluasen Sun 05-Jul-20 19:09:39

@Lauralouise2 your partner will be the father in this case. If November is your due date, you conceived in Feb

Em39ma Sun 05-Jul-20 19:19:11

You’ve posted this before.

Juno231 Sun 05-Jul-20 22:04:23

Unless you're planning on being pregnant for a year then... Your current partner is the father.

Bleepers Mon 06-Jul-20 09:55:43

Your partner is def the father. Are you OK? Sounds like you're very anxious about this when there is biological certainty that your partner is the father of your baby.

Lauralouise2 Mon 06-Jul-20 11:03:54

Thanks for your reply’s yes I’m fine I just worry too much!!

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Greyhoundgirly Mon 06-Jul-20 11:25:35

@Lauralouise2 hi, didn't want to read and run so yes, agree that baby is definitely current partner's... But as someone else said this clearly this is eating away at you a bit. The paternity of the baby is certain from what you've described, so what is it that's bothering you so much? Do you have someone in real life who you can confide in? flowers

Lauralouise2 Mon 06-Jul-20 11:56:00

I just worry far too much I over think to much thankyou for replying xx

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Lauralouise2 Mon 06-Jul-20 21:27:08

@Greyhoundgirly I think I’m just worrying to much and thinking what if all the dates I’ve stated are all correct etc and I don’t want to tell anyone because I feel like if I’m just been stupid then there’s no need, thankyou also for your reply xxx

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willithappen Mon 06-Jul-20 21:33:30

I'm almost sure I have read this post before, was it in the AIBU section?

Anyway, if your due date is Nov then it's impossible the guy you slept with in Nov is the father. A pregnancy is only 9 months

Lauralouise2 Tue 07-Jul-20 10:58:54

@willithappen thankyou for your reply and the reassurance, I feel like I do know deep down as all the dates I have stated are all correct I just over think things and think what I’f the scan is incorrect etc xx

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willithappen Tue 07-Jul-20 12:45:08

Your scan could be incorrect by a few days/maybe a week or so but it wouldn't be by months so you are safe smile

willithappen Tue 07-Jul-20 12:45:18

Your scan could be incorrect by a few days/maybe a week or so but it wouldn't be by months so you are safe smile

Lauralouise2 Tue 07-Jul-20 15:17:22

@willithappen thankyou xx

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mrsmummy111 Tue 07-Jul-20 15:19:50

OP.....do you know how long pregnancy lasts?

Lauralouise2 Tue 07-Jul-20 16:15:02

@mrsmummy111 i do yes i was just worried and over thinking

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mrsmummy111 Tue 07-Jul-20 16:20:58

I apologise my post was actually a bit mean. What I should’ve said was there’s no possible way a pregnancy due in November can be from a partner a year prior. Understandably you’re worried, but truly there’s no need to be

Lauralouise2 Tue 07-Jul-20 16:28:53

No I didn’t see it as rude at all, your right I do sound pretty stupid🤣 but I just wanted to get a little reassurance that I am probably going nuts 😂 @mrsmummy111 thankyou for your reply x

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