TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[MichT4]

Thanks @VP91x xx

[MichT4]

@VP91x 😂😂 feeling like you’ve peed yourself sounds lovely. I don’t mind that, just don’t want it to be accompanied by tinge!
Don’t know what to think. And I’ve got my nieces party today, maybe I just say nothing to anyone. Just tricky with the alcohol sitch

What was the middle of the night meltdown about? xx

[Dipsy77]

Thanks @vp91x x

[Dipsy77]

@MichT4 could you not say you had a bit too much to drink last night and you are very hungover ?x

[SmileyT]

@MichT4 I know it's so easy to say and so hard to do but worrying will only make things worse. Try and remember that all pregnancies are different and there will be things your body secretes it never has before but you got your BFP and it's so important to enjoy it, be kind to yourself and remember that your body will do it's best by you❤️

[Dipsy77]

Also with dd I didn't have sore boobs I had bad cramps and pink tinge and blood a few times was at epu a few times and everything was fine x

[Littlebee1990]

Hey Everyone 🙋🏼‍♀️

TTC our first baby, I’m 30 and my OH is 27, this will be cycle 4. We thought our dreams had come true last week but sadly it was a chemical and my bleeding is easing off now. Today is CD5. AF is due around 1st August but I won’t be testing until she’s at least a week late. I can’t go through an early chemical again. Pure admiration for you all because I’m so scared but have to keep trying.

Huge congratulations to the BFP already and lots of baby dust and love to those trying in January 🌈❤️🤞🏼

[Littlebee1990]

January!? I totally meant July 🤣🙈 Can you tell the weathers rubbish where I am hahah

[MichT4]

@Dipsy77 @SmileyT thank you 💕

@smileyT you’re right, I need to enjoy it and assume it’s fine. Made me laugh about the secretions 🤣🤣. I suppose I will see new things. I’ll go about enjoying all is fine unless I’m told otherwise.

@dipsy77 i would say that, but my mum was with me last night so will know 🤣
I might tell my sister. I see her so often, I’d have to tell her sooner anyway. Then she can help me out and no one else has to know until we are ready.

[SmileyT]

@VP91x temp was up again at 36.54 it's yo-yoing 🙄 and obviously it means a better day on the high day rather than the low 🙈 ahh hope the meltdown wasn't too bad but at least she didn't hit you with a 5am wake up aswell and be grumpy all day (my nephews would do that and then literally fall asleep on the floor about 10am at some pints 😂)

@Dipsy77 congrats 🥳 that line will definitely be clearer in a couple days x

[SmileyT]

@MichT4 You've got this 👊 I'm so confident that whatever you decide to do with telling your family will be the right thing. Always come on and tell us your fears, which are all valid feelings, but I'm going to give you some tough love in the corner because I don't want you to look back on your first trimester and just remember fear. Unless you tell me to shut up in which case I will sharply do that xx

@Littlebee1990 welcome and I'm so sorry for your recent loss xx

[Eli2020]

Thanks for the new thread x

[MichT4]

@SmileyT tough love is exactly what I need! Honest advice and a reality check please. This means everything because it’s lovely you have my back to enjoy this time. Thank you xx

[VP91x]

@MichT4 totally agree with @SmileyT it is so so hard to not worry at everything but, you have to trust your body is absolutely fine and everything is going as it should be otherwise you won't enjoy any of this first part of your pregnancy ❤️

As you know all pregnancies are different I had a much bigger and longer bleed with Bella than with the miscarriage and she is here hitting me with a pillow demanding yet another snack.

Plus all these secretions are probably clearing out things that were in there that need to go for your little beans new comfy home!, 😘

@Littlebee1990 I hope you are okay after the chemical? Sending you a big hug xx
I'm on CD6 so just a day ahead you!

@SmileyT fab!! I thought it might, hormone/implantation dip it was then! This is looking good 👌. Are you doing a full day at work? Anything nice planned for after?

Meltdown was because she didn't want to sleep on her bed, so she ended up in bed with me and my partner relegated to the sofa 🤣 although it took her about an hour to go back to sleep. God, would have been the worst if she woke up at 5am 😭 you end up like a zombie. Xx

[Diorissimo1985]

Thanks for the new thread!

I missed checking in yesterday as I was busy but I see some lovely new bfps!! So happy for you ladies xxx

[AC2020]

Hi everyone hope you don't mind if I jump on the thread with you all.
Had a mc on 1st May at 10 weeks although baby stopped growing at around 6. Currently on first month of trying post mc. Ovulated on the 26th now had a couple of days of brown blood discharge, I remember I had a couple of days of this last time I got pregnant so really trying to be positive and hope for the best 🌈
Sending luck to everyone else on here ❤️

[Jazper]

Thank you for the new thread @VP91x !

Welcome @Littlebee1990 and @AC2020 , this is a lovely group. You will find lots of support here.

@MichT4 ,you could tell people you are on antibiotics and so can't drink while taking them. I know it's the oldest line in the book but works.

[Rb486]

@MichT4 I think increased d/c is normal. I wouldn’t worry at all. I think if you want to tell your fam you should. May make you feel more comfortable at family events and then you won’t have to make any excuses for drink. We should be able to get excited about our baby’s even if we are scared. I saw this on Facebook actually. Maybe it may help to read once a day. Xx

[Rb486]

@Dipsy77 I can defos see the line!! Yay. Hopefully only to get stronger. Excited for you to test again in a few days.

@Littlebee1990 I’m on CD5 too. I’ve just had my first period after m/c and I’m unsure as to if and when I may have ovulated last cycle. So this is my first one TTC. Fingers crossed for the both of us xx

[Northernsoul90]

@VP91x thanks for the new thread!

@Littlebee1990 @AC2020 so sorry for your losses and welcome! I hope you find lots of advice and support here which I’m sure you will. Fingers crossed for you both xx

Ladies who temp - I keep forgetting to do to it as soon as I wake up! So if I have woken up, gone downstairs and then remembered does this mean I shouldn’t record that temp as it will be affected?

[Northernsoul90]

@Rb486 I love the commandments of pregnancy you posted 🥰 hopefully we will all be telling ourselves these one day soon 🤞🏼

[MichT4]

@Jazper I’ll definitely be using the antibiotics one at some point I’m sure

@Rb486 my gosh I needed to read your post and those commandments. Absolutely spot on. Thank you so much 💕

Thank you all so much. I feel very lucky to have found you all 🥰 xxx

[MichT4]

@Littlebee1990 @AC2020 welcome to this wonderful group, and sorry to hear what you’ve both been through.
I hope you get comfort here and sending lots of luck to you xx

[Bellabubble]

@MichT4 what about saying your are trying to avoid alcohol as you are ttc? If anyone questions it or tries to pressure you, you can always say it’s something you read and you really want to try it out this month to see if it helps?

@SmileyT lol - I knew you were the data queen so I think that’s why I thought you had nc!! I like it - but it seems to take a few days to definitely confirm ovulation which I always thought it would be quicker about!!

@hayleylou89 - do you use NC? Did you find it took a day or 2 to confirm ovulation?

My temp went from 36.06 to 36.56 today - so I’m kinda thinking I ovulated yesterday - as my LHsurge was weds eve!

Dipsy77 - I can see a line too! Congratulations :) hopefully it goes from strength to strength! I understand the worry though - I’d be the same! xx

[Hayleylou89]

Aww @Dipsy77 I hope to see that line get stronger for u!! 💖💙🌈

@Bellabubble yeah thats exaclty how it worked with me on NC x x