Advanced search

MOH changed his mind! :(

(3 Posts)
StayEs Mon 22-Jun-20 10:08:17

We were so excited yesterday about finally starting TTC after months of discussion.

Half way through sex, he stops and tells me that he doesn't think we should be doing this now and puts a condom on.

I know of course he has to be 100% sure, and so I can't be annoyed. But I'm embarrassed and feel a bit silly. I am sure we had a two way conversation and I wasn't pressurising him, but I guess now I feel like I was.

I just feel really sad. I know I'm being silly being so upset but I just needed that rant.

I hope that's okay ❤️

Would anyone else be upset by this?

OP’s posts: |
FoxtrotOscarPoppet Mon 22-Jun-20 10:14:04

I’d be fuming OP - especially given that you were both excited following months of discussion.

Why’s he got cold feet? Does he have a controlling nature?

iano Mon 22-Jun-20 10:31:18

That's a huge change of plans. I'm flabbergasted he thought you'd want to continue having sex in the circumstances. Surely at that point you stop and talk about why he's changed his mind!

Join the discussion

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

Join Mumsnet

Already have a Mumsnet account? Log in