I am 39 years old, going to be 40 in a 2 months. Don’t have any children. Have been married before to someone who turned out to be against having children, even though we discussed that before marriage. My current fiancee is 4 years younger than me - 35 and we have been trying to conceive our child for the last 6 months to no success. I have been through every fertility check test possible and nothing negative came back. After getting my period this morning yet again, I was feeling down and when I told my partner about it he was disheartened and said that maybe we are incompatible, which cut me like a knife. I am starting to feel like I am too old to have a baby and I am starting to lose hope. I also feel less attractive as a woman to him. I am not sure what else to do (I take all the required supplements, eat healthy, quit drinking etc). The only thing we haven’t tried is fertility treatments - chlomid, IVF. Ladies, just need some reassurance, feeling very down today.
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