Third thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

[shelly10111]

Oh yay

[Donnat89]

Ya ya found it ! Xx

[Sungirl11]

Hiya!

[Naera95]

Hey ladies can I please join chat. Feeling really alone this cycle. Currently on cycle 10 for TTC baby #1 feeling like it’s never gonna to happen to me. Also period is due this Friday

[Donnat89]

@Naera95 welcome to this thread and fingers crossed you get
Your BFP this month

I have been TTC For a year now after
a MC at 14 weeks last March

I have just got a VFL on a FRER this morning at 14 DPO so I'm hoping it's right and not a cruel trick

Af Is due tomorrow so I will know soon enough x

[Bbutterfly]

@Donnat89 I can see it!!! From out last thread sorry I've just caught up! Can't believe we are on our third thread now what a lovely group we have. Test again tomorrow 😀
@Sungirl11 I hope your af eases off a bit soon.
@shelly10111 test again tomorrow those tests are so annoying with evaps, but you are early so fingers crossed. @NicoleR14 you are holding out really well, let us know what the result is. Really hope either way you get your bfp or af as another month of neither will be so confusing.
@dizzy85 how you feeling today? Hope you're ok.
@Naera95 welcome to the group, sorry you're feeling it at the moment, we have such a nice group don't feel alone we're all here for you. It's hard but we all have to keep positive and keep trying. Our time will come ♥️ I'm also ttc no1 x

[NicoleR14]

Hi ladies!
@neara95 welcome! Most of us is ttc number 1 but a few ttc there 2nd or more im still on cycle 4 and ttc for 7 months I'm 3 weeks late for af! Have you tested yet?

[ArjaD]

@Nmew
@Jessmary94
@Carol1980

[Donnat89]

@Bbutterfly yes I will AF is due tomorrow so if there is no sign in the morning I will test , either way I hopefully will know for sure by tomorrow

I'm trying not to get too excited as still thinking. AF may show
Tomorrow xxx

[Carol1980]

Morning ladies x

@Donnat89 I'll hold my congrats but the frer line is a good sign x

All good this end.
Hubby is away for a couple of days ( don't mind him going away at all, he used to work 4 months away at sea and 3 months home so a couple of days is nothing compared to that)

Anyway, this month I decided since my AF is a wee bit all over the place with regards to length ( went fro. 23 days to 28 days average over the past couple of months) I decided to start testing opk on cd7, yesterday cd7 and got a bloody flashing smiley, same again this morning !
Hubby is back tomorrow but kinda hoping for another flashing smiley to it doesn't put too much pressure on him x

@NicoleR14 got my fingers crossed for you x

[ArjaD]

@Sophiehannah95

[ArjaD]

@Carol1980 ah that's n'y hubby too, was yours merchant navy as well? He's been doing 3 years of offshore work as a secondment now, which was great for ttc. Contract just got extended till July due to Covid, but after that he'll be going back to the ships for his 4 months on 3 months off approx.

[Carol1980]

@ArjaD royal fleet Auxiliary x he left last year are 19 years with them and got a job as a marine pilot at one of the bases, so thankfully now home most of the time x he does 3 weeks on and 3 weeks off now x but thankfully doesn't have to go back to sea for long trips anymore x which is a god send now for childcare as if he was still away it would have meant I wouldn't be able to work my shifts anymore x
What did your bull hubby do for the merchant ? My hubby was a 1st Officer Nav ops when he left x

[bb077]

Hi can I join the thread, currently on cycle two after MMC and on CD 12 could do with joining a group like this

[ArjaD]

@Carol1980 he's a 3rd Engineer on gas tankers. Currently dismantling an old oil rig up in Dundee and doing 2 weeks on 2 Weeks off. Honestly not looking forward to him going back to the ships but I am a self employed massage therapist so he is the main bread winner and I won't get maternity pay aside from statutory now. So needs must.

[Carol1980]

@bb077 welcome


@ArjaD yeah my hubby went back for one trip after our daughter was born, and luckily a job came up that he wanted outside the RFA so applied and got it, it's a challenge ! The whole doing it yourself but like you said needs must x
Are you up Dundee way ? I'm in the central belt x

[bb077]

@carol1980 thanks !

just wanted to ask is or has anyone used or using the clearable advanced fertility monitor? how did you find it ?

[ArjaD]

@Carol1980 we're in Stirling 😁 where are you in the central belt? We're nearly neighbours 😂

[GemmaMay3291]

Hi everyone, please can I join also been TTC for 6 months now and AF arrived yesterday so feeling pretty down today.

Xx

[NicoleR14]

@ArjaD and @carol1980 I'm in denny literally 6 miles from Stirling 😂

[ArjaD]

@NicoleR14 hahaha we're defo neighbours!

[NicoleR14]

@ArjaD we are lol I had another squinted on a frer after an hour hold and complete neg on clear blue!

[Donnat89]

@NicoleR14 how annoying I honestly don't know what to suggest .


I'm so glad I can't test anymore today as have no tests so have no choice but to wait until tomorrow !

X

[Bbutterfly]

I got really excited when I read the first message from @Carol1980 I thought omg we have two navy wife's on the thread @ArjaD 😂 it's so nice hearing about your lives ladies, a welcome break from constant stresses of ttc.
@GemmaMay3291 welcome to the group. Sorry af arrived for you. Try and stay positive ♥️
@NicoleR14 I bet you're more confused now? What you thinking? Xxx

[NicoleR14]

I'm going to try holding it in till 4 and retest with the frer and leave the clear blue for a few days I doubt I'm pg it would be darker km just torturing myself!