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2020mumtobee Fri 14-Feb-20 19:21:06

Hi! Can anyone help me with dates of when I conceived? I've super confused myself and would really appreciate an opinion! My partner and I took a break before we reconciled and now I'm terrified someone I had contact with is the father!

So I have a 28day cycle.

I had sexual contact (second base!) with some penis to vaginal contact. (Sorry don't know how else to put that!) but there was sperm near my vagina put it that way. But no penetration. That was on the 15th October.

Then I had my period 18th October > 22nd October.

Then I had unprotected sex twice on the 28th October and the 31st October.

I'm now 17weeks +1 day pregnant.

When did I conceive? someone tell me it was the week 28th October!

Literaryseed Fri 14-Feb-20 20:00:42

If you had a period after the sexual contact then you didn't get pregnant that cycle. You got pregnant the following cycle which would include the 28th and 31st.

Trying2019 Fri 14-Feb-20 20:01:15

If you had a period after the 15th October i would say you conceived the 28th October. Unless it wasnt a period but an implantation bleed but thats unlikely. I doubt sperm would survive just near your vagina so very unlikely it was the 15th. Im sure there's an online calculator which will work it out for you or someone will be along soon who can help. I wouldnt worry though x

GreyishDays Fri 14-Feb-20 20:01:50

I agree!

2020mumtobee Fri 14-Feb-20 23:23:09

Thanks everyone!!! Trying to stop worrying!!

Rockthis Sun 16-Feb-20 04:47:04

I'm 18wks 2d... My due date is July 16,2020, based on my ultrasound. According to my obgyn & many apps I conceived around Oct 18. The app I used is called flo or ovia, u can try conception calculator on Google as well.

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