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When did you get your BFP?

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Brodijen · 29/01/2020 17:54

Hi gals, I feel like I’m cracking up. I tested this morning after having what seemed like symptoms for the last week and a half- lots and lots of twinges and having that pulling feeling- and got a BFN on FRER. I think I’m 11/12 dpo but I never got a clear dark line on OPK. I was just wondering, when did you get your BFN? Am I out? Two of my apps say I’m due my AF tomorrow but no AF cramps yet. I’ll be so disappointed if she comes.

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Lizziejayne13 · 29/01/2020 17:59

Youre not out until AF arrives ! Good luck xx

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London91 · 29/01/2020 18:02

I tested at 8dpo, after a 3 hour hold in the evening and got a bfp. I wouldn't say you're out, because implantation can happen later and then it takes around 48 hours for a positive test.
Fingers crossed this is your month.

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toteswingingit · 29/01/2020 18:02

Got a faint + at 10dpo, stronger but still faint at 11dpo and BFP on an FRER at 12dpo.

14dpo now and AF due today, going to chance my luck on a digi later.

I know some people don't get a BFP until ages after AF is due so you're deffo not out until it arrives! X

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LexiM · 29/01/2020 18:14

I can totally relate to this. I’m DPO 11 (estimated) today and I have symptoms unlike ones I get for a period. That being said I’ve been on the pill so wonder if my symptoms have changed!
I had a negative today but keep telling myself I’ve seen posts before of people getting their BFP after DPO 12, so still hoping!!

It’s so hard to not obsessively want to test! I keep telling myself it will make no difference to what is or isn’t happening!

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Hatepickinganame · 29/01/2020 18:33

Ive just been making a pro/con list for testing tomorrow at 10dpo 😂 someone please talk sense into me 😂😂😂

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Brodijen · 29/01/2020 19:02

@Lizziejayne13 @London91 @toteswingingit @LexiM Thank you all for the support and encouragement! Just what I need to hear. Going to try my best not to test for a few days and hope AF stays away!

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Hopin4no4 · 29/01/2020 19:13

I had negatives everyday until 12dpo. Don't stress until af arrives x

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Hopin4no4 · 29/01/2020 19:14

And..I never got a positive on opk, just the darkest line I'd seen that cycle. I went off ewcm and ov cramps x

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LexiM · 29/01/2020 19:56

@Brodijen I know it’s so hard to stay away from the tests!!

Thanks @Hopin4no4 that’s made me hopeful! I haven’t done any opk and went off EWCM and Ov cramps too!

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YouBringLightInToADarkPlace · 29/01/2020 19:56

I had negatives right up until the day after AF was due.

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Brodijen · 31/01/2020 15:31

Well I wish I’d followed my own advice, been testing every morning and still BFN! No AF yet, am I still in?

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London91 · 31/01/2020 17:43

Have they all been frer's? Could you have ovulated later in your cycle? If you stopped testing on OPK's you may not have caught your surge. Could mean AF isn't due yet.

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Bl0ndeye · 31/01/2020 19:26

I don’t get a BFP til I’m 4 weeks plus it’s so annoying I feel so pregnant I’m 3 days late and getting bfn 😩😩😩 was like this last Time sent me round the twist !!!

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Brodijen · 31/01/2020 20:03

@London91 I’m not sore when or even if I ovulated and I never got a dark line on OPK. I did two frer and two cheapies and stark BFN on all. I’m on CD31 and usually have cycles of 30-34 so possibly I ovulated late. The wait is killing me at this stage.

@Bl0ndeye That’s very tough going. I don’t feel anything at the moment, I’ve had some symptoms but they’ve all disappeared now. What symptoms have you got?

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Bl0ndeye · 31/01/2020 20:07

Boobs especially nipples are tender and sensitive and my nipples are massive , im exhausted , had niggly cramping around 1 week ago similar to when I was pregnant with my other two children , noticed about 4 days ago started to need a wee more waking up before morning which I don’t normally . Had abit of lower back ache , I’m late haha which is a big sign my
Skins really dry too whixh isn’t normal for me like a hormonal change xxx

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Bl0ndeye · 31/01/2020 20:08

@Brodijen fr always give me negatives I don’t like them xx it’s always been a blue dye wjat give me a positive confirmed with a digi xxx

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Bl0ndeye · 31/01/2020 20:13

@Brodijen I’m mega bloated to it’s really annoying

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Brodijen · 31/01/2020 23:06

@Bl0ndeye That’s not easy, I hope you get your BFP soon! I hope I get some indication tomorrow either way or I’ll go mad.

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London91 · 31/01/2020 23:11

@brodijen then you're definitely not out, I've had random cycles that are longer than usual. Keeping them crossed for you 🤞

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LexiM · 01/02/2020 08:51

Not sure how clear my photo is (annoyingly had problems with my camera!) omg I think I’ve got a BFP - not the strongest line but it’s there and pink. I think I’m 14DPO today, I was sure from my symptoms but kept getting negatives!

When did you get your BFP?
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Hopin4no4 · 01/02/2020 09:18

Congratulations lexiM that's a clear positive!!! Woop! Xx

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LexiM · 01/02/2020 10:37

@Hopin4no4 thanks so much! All so surreal Smile

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Hopin4no4 · 01/02/2020 11:08

I know, I'm in the same boat. I couldn't believe it last Sunday when it happened to me, I've been poas every day since and only got my bfp on digital cb yesterday evening, 1-2 weeks.
So happy for you ❤

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LexiM · 01/02/2020 11:49

So happy for you too - I have definitely peed on more sticks than I should have 😄

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Bl0ndeye · 03/02/2020 07:17

Omg yay happy
For u x

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