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When did you get your BFP?

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Brodijen Wed 29-Jan-20 17:54:09

Hi gals, I feel like I’m cracking up. I tested this morning after having what seemed like symptoms for the last week and a half- lots and lots of twinges and having that pulling feeling- and got a BFN on FRER. I think I’m 11/12 dpo but I never got a clear dark line on OPK. I was just wondering, when did you get your BFN? Am I out? Two of my apps say I’m due my AF tomorrow but no AF cramps yet. I’ll be so disappointed if she comes.

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Lizziejayne13 Wed 29-Jan-20 17:59:59

Youre not out until AF arrives ! Good luck xx

London91 Wed 29-Jan-20 18:02:06

I tested at 8dpo, after a 3 hour hold in the evening and got a bfp. I wouldn't say you're out, because implantation can happen later and then it takes around 48 hours for a positive test.
Fingers crossed this is your month.

toteswingingit Wed 29-Jan-20 18:02:50

Got a faint + at 10dpo, stronger but still faint at 11dpo and BFP on an FRER at 12dpo.

14dpo now and AF due today, going to chance my luck on a digi later.

I know some people don't get a BFP until ages after AF is due so you're deffo not out until it arrives! X

LexiM Wed 29-Jan-20 18:14:56

I can totally relate to this. I’m DPO 11 (estimated) today and I have symptoms unlike ones I get for a period. That being said I’ve been on the pill so wonder if my symptoms have changed!
I had a negative today but keep telling myself I’ve seen posts before of people getting their BFP after DPO 12, so still hoping!!

It’s so hard to not obsessively want to test! I keep telling myself it will make no difference to what is or isn’t happening!

Hatepickinganame Wed 29-Jan-20 18:33:52

Ive just been making a pro/con list for testing tomorrow at 10dpo 😂 someone please talk sense into me 😂😂😂

Brodijen Wed 29-Jan-20 19:02:46

@Lizziejayne13 @London91 @toteswingingit @LexiM Thank you all for the support and encouragement! Just what I need to hear. Going to try my best not to test for a few days and hope AF stays away!

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Hopin4no4 Wed 29-Jan-20 19:13:15

I had negatives everyday until 12dpo. Don't stress until af arrives x

Hopin4no4 Wed 29-Jan-20 19:14:14

And..I never got a positive on opk, just the darkest line I'd seen that cycle. I went off ewcm and ov cramps x

LexiM Wed 29-Jan-20 19:56:40

@Brodijen I know it’s so hard to stay away from the tests!!

Thanks @Hopin4no4 that’s made me hopeful! I haven’t done any opk and went off EWCM and Ov cramps too!

YouBringLightInToADarkPlace Wed 29-Jan-20 19:56:55

I had negatives right up until the day after AF was due.

Brodijen Fri 31-Jan-20 15:31:41

Well I wish I’d followed my own advice, been testing every morning and still BFN! No AF yet, am I still in?

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London91 Fri 31-Jan-20 17:43:42

Have they all been frer's? Could you have ovulated later in your cycle? If you stopped testing on OPK's you may not have caught your surge. Could mean AF isn't due yet.

Bl0ndeye Fri 31-Jan-20 19:26:27

I don’t get a BFP til I’m 4 weeks plus it’s so annoying I feel so pregnant I’m 3 days late and getting bfn 😩😩😩 was like this last Time sent me round the twist !!!

Brodijen Fri 31-Jan-20 20:03:14

@London91 I’m not sore when or even if I ovulated and I never got a dark line on OPK. I did two frer and two cheapies and stark BFN on all. I’m on CD31 and usually have cycles of 30-34 so possibly I ovulated late. The wait is killing me at this stage.

@Bl0ndeye That’s very tough going. I don’t feel anything at the moment, I’ve had some symptoms but they’ve all disappeared now. What symptoms have you got?

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Bl0ndeye Fri 31-Jan-20 20:07:57

Boobs especially nipples are tender and sensitive and my nipples are massive , im exhausted , had niggly cramping around 1 week ago similar to when I was pregnant with my other two children , noticed about 4 days ago started to need a wee more waking up before morning which I don’t normally . Had abit of lower back ache , I’m late haha which is a big sign my
Skins really dry too whixh isn’t normal for me like a hormonal change xxx

Bl0ndeye Fri 31-Jan-20 20:08:58

@Brodijen fr always give me negatives I don’t like them xx it’s always been a blue dye wjat give me a positive confirmed with a digi xxx

Bl0ndeye Fri 31-Jan-20 20:13:07

@Brodijen I’m mega bloated to it’s really annoying

Brodijen Fri 31-Jan-20 23:06:40

@Bl0ndeye That’s not easy, I hope you get your BFP soon! I hope I get some indication tomorrow either way or I’ll go mad.

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London91 Fri 31-Jan-20 23:11:34

@brodijen then you're definitely not out, I've had random cycles that are longer than usual. Keeping them crossed for you 🤞

LexiM Sat 01-Feb-20 08:51:27

Not sure how clear my photo is (annoyingly had problems with my camera!) omg I think I’ve got a BFP - not the strongest line but it’s there and pink. I think I’m 14DPO today, I was sure from my symptoms but kept getting negatives!

Hopin4no4 Sat 01-Feb-20 09:18:39

Congratulations lexiM that's a clear positive!!! Woop! Xx

LexiM Sat 01-Feb-20 10:37:31

@Hopin4no4 thanks so much! All so surreal smile

Hopin4no4 Sat 01-Feb-20 11:08:08

I know, I'm in the same boat. I couldn't believe it last Sunday when it happened to me, I've been poas every day since and only got my bfp on digital cb yesterday evening, 1-2 weeks.
So happy for you ❤

LexiM Sat 01-Feb-20 11:49:26

So happy for you too - I have definitely peed on more sticks than I should have 😄

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