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6 days late but bfn!!

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Kliz92 Mon 13-Jan-20 22:18:41

Hi ladies!
Just wondering if there is anyone else in the same boat or has been in the past?
Im quite sure that I'm not actually pregnant but just want af to show so I can work out my cycle 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ xxx

RainbowsSunshine Tue 14-Jan-20 20:12:38

Hi Kliz92!

I am currently 5 days late and no af or bfp... I have no idea what’s going on as I’m never late 🤷🏼‍♀️

So confusing! Xx

Sadie95 Tue 14-Jan-20 20:37:18


I will be 8 days "late" tomomorrow with no AF and still BFN. I don't think I'm pregnant I think this is a long cycle. I will mention I had my coil out a few months ago so this is my first full cycle after having my period smile

Kendrick12 Tue 14-Jan-20 20:47:07

Hi ladies I am currently 4 days late no AF or real sign of it as I've had cramps for nearly 2 weeks now and constant headaches. Made peace with the fact I'm out this month as even this morning BFN for me. Also 15 dpo. Tonight was about to jump in the bath, did another 1, thinking definitely not! Got in the bath, was in there about an hour then got out went to throw the test away and saw 2 obvious lines!! The second line is definitely pink as opposed to grey and even more obvious in real life! I now really don't know what to think again! What do you all think??

introv3rt Tue 14-Jan-20 21:18:26

@Kendrick12 looks like a line to me 😊🤞🏻💕

Kliz92 Tue 14-Jan-20 21:21:06

@Sadie95 @RainbowsSunshine it's so horrible just waiting to see if af shows! I can definitely feel it coming though. I'm sure it'll come tomorrow!!
@Kendrick12 I can definitely see a faint line! How long did this take to show up?? X

RainbowsSunshine Tue 14-Jan-20 21:43:05

@Kendrick12 Definitely looks like a line to me too! 🤞🏻 Maybe do another test in the morning if you have one to double check?

@Sadie95 @Klitz92 I’m feeling AF brewing too so I’m thinking she might be here by tomorrow morning. I just want something either way. The waiting is horrible!

Kendrick12 Tue 14-Jan-20 22:27:39

This was negative after 3 minutes jumped int the bath, went to throw the test away an hour later looked and an obvious second line the line is definitely pink as opposed to grey but still was an hour after which is why I'm doubting it so much! I've used half a box of these tests and never had evans before got the one from this morning still and bright white but I'm still not convinced this is a true positive!! I'm also 15 dpo and I think I may have implanted on Thursday because of pains and cm. so I should definitely be seeing a darker line by now surely?? 🤔🤔😩😩😩 xxx

Snowflake9 Tue 14-Jan-20 22:32:05

You probably ovulated later this month. Do you track your BBT?

Kendrick12 Tue 14-Jan-20 22:35:40

@snowflake9 no I don't but I had a positive LH surge on 30th and 31st Jan had sex every day the week leading up to 30th then a couple of times since. I had really bad cramps on Thursday thought my AF was coming then had lots of CM that night I mean lots!! The Friday all pains stopped and no AF or anything since. Had a headache for a week, lower back ache but no sore breasts or sickness etc. I'm really confused going to do another test in the morning xx

RainbowsSunshine Wed 15-Jan-20 08:38:24

@Kendrick12 Any news this morning? Crossing my fingers for you!

Still no AF for me so 6 days late here x

Newbie1992 Wed 15-Jan-20 08:54:19

Oh god I hate this. I'm having a similar problem, had faint lines at 12 and 14 dpo, on 15 dpo (today) got a negative so I'm guessing it's a chemical 😪 my big fear is now what if it's ectopic ??? I don't know where this fear has come from but it's taken over my mind I'm a mess and I never thought I would say this but I just want af to come so I know I'm ok and can start again next month sad

Sadie95 Wed 15-Jan-20 10:57:13

BFN this morning for me but still no AF yet but I can feel it brewing! I am currently a week late 😢

RainbowsSunshine Wed 15-Jan-20 11:10:55

It’s so confusing isn’t it? It’s so odd as the only time I’ve ever been late was when I was pregnant with my now 3.5 year old DD. But I got my BFP with her on the day I was due on. I feel like my body is playing tricks on me x

Sadie95 Wed 15-Jan-20 11:36:11

@RainbowsSunshine I'm the same, I got a faint BFP early with my DD who is 2 tomorrow. I have creamy/lotion like cm (sorry tmi) and have done for the last few days so I'm expecting AF to turn up soon x

Kendrick12 Wed 15-Jan-20 11:37:27

@RainbowsSunshine nothing this morning at all. So bizarre I literally have no idea what's going on! I'm on cd 36 today too! 😩😩 xxx

Kliz92 Wed 15-Jan-20 11:53:45

Af is very light this morning but will defo be full force by the end of the day! Hopfully some good news will come to you ladies xx

RainbowsSunshine Thu 16-Jan-20 08:00:15

@Kliz92 You had a feeling it was brewing didn’t you. Pleased you’re able to start a fresh cycle now though.

How’s everyone else? I was absolutely convinced AF would be here this morning. I went to bed with period pain but nothing this morning. I’m a week late now confused

I don’t know if/when I should test again. I’m a week late now. I might wait and see if AF shows up by 10 days, so that will be Sunday x

Kliz92 Thu 16-Jan-20 08:24:53

@RainbowsSunshine your right I did! I can go back to normal and start again and I'm quite relieved actually!
It is so horrible not knowing what is happening in your body!! Hopfully you get some answers soonxx

Maise24 Thu 16-Jan-20 10:19:29

Hey ladies!

Hope you don't mind me joining in! I can relate to your frustrations, I am currently 6 days late on a very regular 31 day cycle!

I did a FRER 2 days 3 days after my period was due, and a clear blue the following morning with FMU (BFN). I did a cheapie yesterday randomly in the afternoon (of course, BFN!) I have had PMS symptoms all week, cramping, back pain, feeling sick.... on the day I was expecting AF to show, I had sharp piercing pains on one side and then a few fluttering ones over the next few days, which seems to have calmed down now. I honestly don't know what is going on!!

Its horrible being stuck in this limbo, I would love to hear how you all are getting on?? I have decided to stop testing now until next week and have made a Drs appt for bloods next saturday.

Its just so unusual for my AF to be late, I cant understand what is happening!! Could it have been a late ovuation? I would have thought id be getting a faint line by now at least if I were lucky enough to be PG.

Also, this is our 7th month TTC baby number 1! xx

Maise24 Thu 16-Jan-20 10:21:56

Also I had stopped charting my temp a few months ago - randomly decided to see what it was, and the past 2 days it has been higher than it has ever been! No sign of going down. Very confusing and emotionally draining!

Kendrick12 Thu 16-Jan-20 10:50:02

Still nothing apart from feeling sick for me this morning! 😫😫😫 cd 37 now. Longest one ever! And still no sign of AF. Starting to worry that there's something wrong with me! Xxx

Maise24 Thu 16-Jan-20 10:56:11

@Kendrick12 Oh bless you, I have been feeling sick this morning too! I feel your pain, its constantly on my mind and I am SO sick of seeing BFN! I really am just wondering if there is something wrong with me, my latest midnight worry was early menopause (I'm 29!) - wishing I could get my BFP or my AF - just to know either way!

Sending you lots of baby dust xx

Maise24 Thu 16-Jan-20 10:57:00

I have read some posts from women who have been 10 days late and only just got their BFP! So there is hope.... fingers crossed! I keep telling myself its not over till AF shows...

RainbowsSunshine Thu 16-Jan-20 14:34:15

Hi again everyone smile

It’s so frustrating!! Still nothing here. It’s constantly on my mind. @Maise24 @Kendrick12 I’ve been worrying there is something wrong too. It’s just when it’s so out of the ordinary for you, it’s natural to think well what on earth is happening?!

I keep thinking that it’s not over until AF shows but I don’t want to get my hopes up. I’m so tempted to pop out and buy another test but it’s so disappointing when it’s a bfn sad x

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