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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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sarahc336 · 17/12/2019 20:18

11 dpo is still very early as some people only implant at 11/12 days so really we shouldn't really test until the day af is due

NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 20:22

@sarahc336 thank you! Getting eager to test again but trying not to as it's still too early!

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NamelessNinja · 17/12/2019 20:34

A couple of weeks ago I had a BFN at 11dpo, went out and got drunk at a Christmas party, didn't think anymore of it. Had some spotting so tested again at 16dpo and BFP- oops! So I would say definitely not out yet

NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 20:45

@NamelessNinja aww congratulations! Still hope for me yet! I actually can't take the cramping in my back and belly I feel like I'm going to die I hope it's not pms I've had sore boobs before my last period but never cramping this bad so I'm hoping this passes soon!

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Nmew · 17/12/2019 22:23

Hey we’re almost cycle twins, I’m 11dpo and due AF 22nd. Also bfn for me today on amazon cheapies.

Ain’t out till AF sings as they say! Fingers crossed for you x

NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 22:32

@Nmew cramp twins as my DH calls us lol hopefully you get your BFP soon! it would be an amazing present this Christmas!

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dizzy85 · 17/12/2019 22:34

Hello mind if I join? I'm gonna do my first test tomorrow I'll be 9dpo af due on the 23rd

xxchlobo90xx · 17/12/2019 22:42

Hey girls mind if I join? I'm currently 9dpo and got BFN today 😔 AF is due on 24th but I'm struggling to wait that long to test again! I have had really sore and swollen boobs for over a week, plus slight cramping and lower back ache on and off! I usually get sore boobs before AF but not this early! Hopefully I'm not out yet. Fingers crossed for you all x

peonymeng · 17/12/2019 22:42

I'm 11DPO as well, I tested yesterday at 10DPO (FRER) and was a BFN. I had no symptoms compare to my last cycle, which I got BFP on 9DPO. But ended in a chemical pregnancy a few days later. So I think I'm certainly out for this cycle. I'd say if you are having so many symptoms, then that's a good sign. Wait for 2-3 days and test again. And if you are really wanting for sure, go get a blood test tomorrow, they are more sensitive and accurate.

NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 22:49

Welcome girls! Sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy hopefully next month is your month! All these symptoms have me crawling up the walls hopefully it's BFPs all around this month! Not out until AF shows up! 😊

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xxchlobo90xx · 17/12/2019 22:54

It's so frustrating not knowing whether they are PMS symptoms or not isn't it! Hopefully this is our month 🤞🏼. When are you all testing again? Think I'm going to buy some FR tests tomorrow, as I've used a clear blue one today but have read they aren't great.

dizzy85 · 17/12/2019 23:12

I'm gonna test in the morning with a Poundland test I can't wait any longer 😄

xxchlobo90xx · 17/12/2019 23:15

Aw fingers crossed for you! Keep us updated 😬

dizzy85 · 17/12/2019 23:29

@xxchlobo90xx Thankyou, not holding out too much hope as I'll only be 9dpo but gotta satisfy the urge to poas 😄
Fingers crossed for you too!

xxchlobo90xx · 17/12/2019 23:36

Il probably do another one tomorrow too, it's dangerous having tests In the house as I have no willpower 😂

dizzy85 · 17/12/2019 23:52

It's so hard to resist isn't it 😂 I got some cheap ones today as I only had 1 frer left from last month and don't wanna use that up too early. I now have 9 cheapies so that should keep me going.

Nmew · 18/12/2019 00:17

Lol cramp twins is accurate! So many crampy twinges happening this cycle, driving me nuts lol

@xxchlobo90xx totally get it, I feel like an addict for POAS

Sorry about the chemical @peonymeng convinced I had a chemical last month but never got it confirmed by a doctor. Hopeful for you for this cycle!

Good luck tomorrow @dizzy85 !

I think I might test with fmu on a CB early test, I have 2 and a digital too so I figure doing one at 12DPO is ok. Been just using the wondfo ic so far.

dizzy85 · 18/12/2019 07:03

Morning everyone, a bfn for me today but expected really as only early..will try again tomorrow 😊

xxchlobo90xx · 18/12/2019 08:41

Morning girls! BFN for me this morning using CB. I'm out of tests now so going to try and not buy anymore for a few days... we shall see though 😂.

Bbutterfly · 18/12/2019 09:41

Morning ladies, mind if I join?
I got a bfn this morning too. cd30 12dpo. It seems there may still be hope...@xxchlobo90xx so hard to resist isn't it it's an obsession.
I am going to try my best and wait until the weekend for af to turn up! Hopefully she doesn't! Xx

Nmew · 18/12/2019 11:14

BFN on CB for me also, think I’ll try wait until day I’m due AF, if she doesn’t rear her head early that is.

dizzy85 · 18/12/2019 12:20

Sorry for your bfns too. We still have time yet though. I had some spotting starting today which I usually get on and off before af which is annoying but hopefully it doesn't mean I'm out.

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NicoleR14 · 18/12/2019 12:50

There's still time for our BFPs ladies! Haven't tested today I'm actually quiet proud of myself for not testing going to try and wait off until Saturday when AF due! Still getting backache and pain in left side of belly and very tender breasts so fingers crossed for us all 🤞🏼xx

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ArjaD · 18/12/2019 13:18

Hi all, mind if i join? I'm another cycle buddy! 10 dpo today and due af on 22nd. Got a bfn this morning, arghh shouldn't have tested! How are you all getting on?

Nmew · 18/12/2019 13:57

It’s so hard not to test isn’t it @ArjaD I’ve been trying to just get up and pee ASAP so I’m not tempted haha I just hope that if AF is coming it comes on time and doesn’t decided to toy with us and come late!

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