11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 Tue 17-Dec-19 19:50:07

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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sarahc336 Tue 17-Dec-19 20:18:38

11 dpo is still very early as some people only implant at 11/12 days so really we shouldn't really test until the day af is due smile

NicoleR14 Tue 17-Dec-19 20:22:33

@sarahc336 thank you! Getting eager to test again but trying not to as it's still too early!

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NamelessNinja Tue 17-Dec-19 20:34:31

A couple of weeks ago I had a BFN at 11dpo, went out and got drunk at a Christmas party, didn't think anymore of it. Had some spotting so tested again at 16dpo and BFP- oops! So I would say definitely not out yet

NicoleR14 Tue 17-Dec-19 20:45:18

@NamelessNinja aww congratulations! Still hope for me yet! I actually can't take the cramping in my back and belly I feel like I'm going to die I hope it's not pms I've had sore boobs before my last period but never cramping this bad so I'm hoping this passes soon!

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Nmew Tue 17-Dec-19 22:23:55

Hey we’re almost cycle twins, I’m 11dpo and due AF 22nd. Also bfn for me today on amazon cheapies.

Ain’t out till AF sings as they say! Fingers crossed for you x

NicoleR14 Tue 17-Dec-19 22:32:59

@Nmew cramp twins as my DH calls us lol hopefully you get your BFP soon! it would be an amazing present this Christmas!

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dizzy85 Tue 17-Dec-19 22:34:51

Hello mind if I join? I'm gonna do my first test tomorrow I'll be 9dpo af due on the 23rd

xxchlobo90xx Tue 17-Dec-19 22:42:00

Hey girls mind if I join? I'm currently 9dpo and got BFN today 😔 AF is due on 24th but I'm struggling to wait that long to test again! I have had really sore and swollen boobs for over a week, plus slight cramping and lower back ache on and off! I usually get sore boobs before AF but not this early! Hopefully I'm not out yet. Fingers crossed for you all x

peonymeng Tue 17-Dec-19 22:42:27

I'm 11DPO as well, I tested yesterday at 10DPO (FRER) and was a BFN. I had no symptoms compare to my last cycle, which I got BFP on 9DPO. But ended in a chemical pregnancy a few days later. So I think I'm certainly out for this cycle. I'd say if you are having so many symptoms, then that's a good sign. Wait for 2-3 days and test again. And if you are really wanting for sure, go get a blood test tomorrow, they are more sensitive and accurate.

NicoleR14 Tue 17-Dec-19 22:49:57

Welcome girls! Sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy hopefully next month is your month! All these symptoms have me crawling up the walls hopefully it's BFPs all around this month! Not out until AF shows up! 😊

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xxchlobo90xx Tue 17-Dec-19 22:54:31

It's so frustrating not knowing whether they are PMS symptoms or not isn't it! Hopefully this is our month 🤞🏼. When are you all testing again? Think I'm going to buy some FR tests tomorrow, as I've used a clear blue one today but have read they aren't great.

dizzy85 Tue 17-Dec-19 23:12:31

I'm gonna test in the morning with a Poundland test I can't wait any longer 😄

xxchlobo90xx Tue 17-Dec-19 23:15:03

Aw fingers crossed for you! Keep us updated 😬

dizzy85 Tue 17-Dec-19 23:29:18

@xxchlobo90xx Thankyou, not holding out too much hope as I'll only be 9dpo but gotta satisfy the urge to poas 😄
Fingers crossed for you too!

xxchlobo90xx Tue 17-Dec-19 23:36:02

Il probably do another one tomorrow too, it's dangerous having tests In the house as I have no willpower 😂

dizzy85 Tue 17-Dec-19 23:52:46

It's so hard to resist isn't it 😂 I got some cheap ones today as I only had 1 frer left from last month and don't wanna use that up too early. I now have 9 cheapies so that should keep me going.

Nmew Wed 18-Dec-19 00:17:09

Lol cramp twins is accurate! So many crampy twinges happening this cycle, driving me nuts lol

@xxchlobo90xx totally get it, I feel like an addict for POAS

Sorry about the chemical @peonymeng convinced I had a chemical last month but never got it confirmed by a doctor. Hopeful for you for this cycle!

Good luck tomorrow @dizzy85 !

I think I might test with fmu on a CB early test, I have 2 and a digital too so I figure doing one at 12DPO is ok. Been just using the wondfo ic so far.

dizzy85 Wed 18-Dec-19 07:03:27

Morning everyone, a bfn for me today but expected really as only early..will try again tomorrow 😊

xxchlobo90xx Wed 18-Dec-19 08:41:52

Morning girls! BFN for me this morning using CB. I'm out of tests now so going to try and not buy anymore for a few days... we shall see though 😂.

Bbutterfly Wed 18-Dec-19 09:41:55

Morning ladies, mind if I join?
I got a bfn this morning too. cd30 12dpo. It seems there may still be hope...@xxchlobo90xx so hard to resist isn't it it's an obsession.
I am going to try my best and wait until the weekend for af to turn up! Hopefully she doesn't! Xx

Nmew Wed 18-Dec-19 11:14:20

BFN on CB for me also, think I’ll try wait until day I’m due AF, if she doesn’t rear her head early that is.

dizzy85 Wed 18-Dec-19 12:20:57

Sorry for your bfns too. We still have time yet though. I had some spotting starting today which I usually get on and off before af which is annoying but hopefully it doesn't mean I'm out.

NicoleR14 Wed 18-Dec-19 12:50:14

There's still time for our BFPs ladies! Haven't tested today I'm actually quiet proud of myself for not testing going to try and wait off until Saturday when AF due! Still getting backache and pain in left side of belly and very tender breasts so fingers crossed for us all 🤞🏼xx

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ArjaD Wed 18-Dec-19 13:18:14

Hi all, mind if i join? I'm another cycle buddy! 10 dpo today and due af on 22nd. Got a bfn this morning, arghh shouldn't have tested! How are you all getting on?

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