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No judgement please - opinions. Guy a or b?

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el98 · 04/12/2019 21:46

I know i will never know 100% till baby is here and a DNA test will be done but i was just looking for some feedback on what people most likely think. I’ve looked at the conception calculators a few online and it does say conception most likely the 10th April. I just want people’s opinions.

My last period was the 25th March 2019 and i have a 30 cycle. I slept with guy A once on the 3rd April then guy B on the 5th/7th/8th/9th April. I took a pregnancy test on the 30th April clear blue which said (2-3 week since conception) I then had a tiny bleed on the 24th May which i went to the EPU and that date they measured me 7 weeks 6 days.

On the 17th June i had my 12 week scan which i measured 11 weeks 5 days so my due date is 1st January. I’m not looking for negative comments just abit of support on who people think is most likely guy. A DNA will be done when baby arrives like i’ve said and i’ve used calculators online.

If people have any knowledge and explanation i would really appreciate it and who do people most likely think, based on a 28/30 day cycle, Guy A or B? Also is a sperm life spam 5 or 7 days?
 
Guy B is my ex and since ending up with him on the 5th we have been back together since and he’s stuck by my side knowing the situation. 


Any ladies due similar time know when the conceived ?

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ComisSousDePartie · 04/12/2019 21:47

Guy B

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kell2126 · 04/12/2019 21:49

I'd wager it's guy B's because 7 days is too long for the other guy's sperm to have survived

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ComisSousDePartie · 04/12/2019 21:50

You only had sex with guyA on cycle day 8 but then loads with B before during and after ovulation, assuming a regular cycle.

Look at it this way, if you hadn’t had sex with B, it is highly unlikely you would have got pregnant by A anyway because it was too early in your cycle.

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DuckPie · 04/12/2019 21:51

I'd go B as it is unlikely (but not impossible) you'd have ovulated by 3rd April based on that cycle length

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LosingtheTTCplot · 04/12/2019 21:52

I would agree with previous posters, more than likely to be guy B

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el98 · 04/12/2019 23:24

I see but still a slight change he could be because can’t sperm live 5-7 days in a women’s body and if i slept with him on the 3rd his sperm could possibly be still there by the 9/10?

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EL8888 · 04/12/2019 23:27

I think most likely it’s guy b

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el98 · 05/12/2019 09:59

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el98 · 05/12/2019 17:26

thank you guys for replying and giving me some guidance x

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josephineisblue · 05/12/2019 17:33

I think it's too close to call.

If you have a regular standard cycle then more likely guy B, but I've fallen pregnant at times of the month I shouldn't technically been able to and so have others I've known.

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myduckiscooked · 05/12/2019 17:33

Early pregnancy scan dates are extremely accurate. So the best estimate I could estimate, based on my extremely limited obstetric knowledge, for date of conception would be 5 weeks and 6 days before your scan date.

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el98 · 06/12/2019 21:49

BUMP

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