End of November, jump on board pt 3!

[Skygirl1983]

All ready for when we reach 1000 on the other thread!!

[CiaraJ01]

Good morning ladies 👋👋

[ceebee21]

Morning, another Bfn for me.. Thought I can see the faintest of lines yesterday and this morning, but really think I am Imagining it xx

[Skygirl1983]

I'm here!! Hopefully people realise we have moved!!

[PrettyGirl5545]

Woah! Third thread! @nt1992 @Louu99 @PandaPink @mellymoo86 @Maisy24

[Louu99]

Morrrrrning!

[sh84]

Morning ladies. For those that use OPKs do you do it in the morning or evening. I was doing them in the morning then changed to the evening. I was thinking next month I’ll test in the morning for a few days then as it gets closer to ovulation do one in the morning & evening. I feel like I must ovulate quite quickly as this month as I had a negative, next day positive, next day negative. I use the pink CB digital one if that makes any difference

[PandaPink]

@sh84 really should be doing opks afternoon and evening as you may miss the surge!

@Skygirl1983 @ceebee21 there is still hope yet! Keeping my fingers crossed for yous x

[mellymoo86]

Morning everyone. @Skygirl1983 no AF yet huh? Hmm see how the day goes. Wish your body would make its mind up already. My chest infection is in full swing today :(

[sh84]

@PandaPink I think I’ll test in the morning with second urine & in the evening as it gets closer to ovulation. Don’t even know of OH is going to be around for fertile window yet, just planning incase he is

[nt1992]

Thought I'd lost yous!😂

[nt1992]

This mornings ovulation strips, seems to be building up again. Today is apparently the start of ovulation for me🤷🏽‍♀️🤞🏼

[nt1992]

@sh84 I have been doing them in morning & evening. Never use FMU I read that you're not supposed to but I'm not sure if that's true. I always just do mid morning & dinner time x

[Louu99]

@nt1992 that looks pretty good! I'm trying to be relaxed about it all but intrigued to see if I am ovulating!

@mellymoo86 I hope you feel better soon 🙁 are you off work? Cuddle up in bed or on the sofa and chill out if you are!

I'm off to see the doctor this morning. My mental health has taken a huge hit with all of this stuff, so I'm gonna get some help xx

[PandaPink]

@nt1992 @sh84 I think if you dtd twice a week you will hopefully get the right moment without stressing to much about surges.

Okay so this morning's tests, second urine of the morning cos I pee like 3 times through the night. Top test is 25 ml/ul and bottom test is a FRER. Both after 3 minutes. I feel mild cramps and have not had a satisfactory bowel movement all week! I keep thinking af will show on Thurs. How can I be more positive? DP wants me to put the tests down and stop thinking about it until missed period has definitely happened. I think he doesn't want me to get too excited because of what has happened on the past with the chemical and blighted ovum.

[Skygirl1983]

Ladies, opinion on IC tests, is it possible to keep getting a BFN on them if I am pg? I'll give it a couple of days and do a FR or CB.

@Louu99 sounds like a good idea. If you are struggling have a chat with someone. In my area you can self refer to counselling services without going to a GP. Do you have that option where you live??

[PandaPink]

@Louu99 it's not easy asking for help but you are doing the right thing even if it's just someone to listen to you x

[Louu99]

@PandaPink I know it's difficult but try and wait until your missed period. Or go see the doctor and ask for a blood test to confirm?

@Skygirl1983 unfortunately no. But the doctor is very good so I'm sure it'll all be fine. I hate asking for help, feel like a failure xx

[mellymoo86]

@Louu99 yeah I called in sick today. This is me on the sofa with my sexy toilet paper to blow my nose lol. I hope the GP has some good advise for you, let us know how it goes. @Skygirl1983 you've done a fr or cb already no? For some reason I thought you had.

[PrettyGirl5545]

@PandaPink Try to focus on your diet dear. Take something that will cool your tummy and are healthy. My Mom In Law advises to take greenies especially leaves of solanum nigrum. It removes the heat and is very good for uterus she says.

[Louu99]

@mellymoo86 good! Everyone needs a sofa day, especially when you're feeling rubbish xx

[PrettyGirl5545]

I'm 4dpo and i M feeling nothing. Except sore boobs but i don't think implantation would hav happened.. Btw Today's my 10 months anniversary!!!

[mellymoo86]

@PrettyGirl5545 happy annnniii!!! Is it a wedding anni?

[Skygirl1983]

@Louu99 that's good then. I hope they can help. The hardest thing sometimes is recognising the need to go.

@mellymoo86 I did FRER on Thursday and CB on Saturday. The CB had the really odd arrow like line but super faint! It's been BFN on IC since then. I just need to get this out of my head but it's so hard!!! :(

[mellymoo86]

@Skygirl1983 why don't you do a test today? Maybe wait until the evening and if no AF maybe worth a go?

[Skygirl1983]

I did an IC this morning with my fmu. And nothing. And other than queasy I feel nothing else. I have another CB at home but will leave it and if AF doesn't come by Thursday I'll try again.