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Over 40's TTC loads of baby dust to all... 5

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:31

Hope this works as we lots the thread

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:34

@Cleozeta @BooseysMom @Russkispy @Mystie @NicLondon1 @rubyroot @sweetpea36 @tiggerifficmummy please add link to others we lost our thread as we reached 1000 posts at a crucial moment

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Mystie · 06/11/2019 18:42

Thanks for the tag @Chatbash72 @Surferrosa74

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:43

@Russkispy I'm so sorry sending loads of love and hugs be gentle with yourself.. take it easy 💕💕💕

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:44

@Hmmm123 @hmmm123 couldn't remember which you were using

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:56

@SparrowSG @rubyroot @Rose68

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:57

@burntpinky @Widdendream77 @NicLondon1

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 18:59

@Mjlp @Jojowash

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 19:03

@Rubyroost @KCM99 @MaryShelley1818 apologies if you have come off the thread,just trying to think who was on the last thread

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Jojowash · 06/11/2019 19:25

Hi again guys! What happened?

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hmmm123 · 06/11/2019 19:34

I've found you! thanks @Chatbash72

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Russkispy · 06/11/2019 19:44

@Chatbash72 thank you for the new thread.
I'll be around but not active as such. As soon as I get my new plan for next transfer, I'll let you all know

Will be thinking of you all xx

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 19:52

@Jojowash once we reach 1000 posts our thread stops

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minime2017 · 06/11/2019 20:04

Still floating in the background. Thanks for the new thread.

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Cleozeta · 06/11/2019 20:23

Thanks chat

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Dia12 · 06/11/2019 22:29

I'd created another thread as I couldn't find this earlier!!!

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Dia12 · 06/11/2019 22:29

So sorry to hear of your loss @Russkispy, hope you are able to look after yourself. 

Wondeful news @Cleotzeta - must be such a relief. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy x

Thank you @NicLondon1 - you're right, I think we need to consider IUI to help us. We have an appointment with the clinic tomorrow for some tests and I'm going to have a chat about this as an option to try before we begin another ivf.

I was prescribed 800mg progesterone daily too and believe this to be fairly standard and to be harmless. I didn't have any major side effects - it did make me very hot and sweaty
I've also heard vitex can help with luteal phase but there was so much conflicting information and not enough evidence in support that i decided against it. I did however take 150mcg B12 and 200mg B6 after ovulation and this has helped extend my luteal phase from 10days to 12.

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Chatbash72 · 06/11/2019 23:07

Ooh sorry @Dia12 it took me a while to work out how to post a thread,a techie Luddite 🤣🤣

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CritterTamer · 07/11/2019 02:11

Thanks for the new thread Chat 😊

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KristieP2018 · 07/11/2019 06:00

I'm still here.

So so sorry @Russkispy xx

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MaryShelley1818 · 07/11/2019 06:55

Thank you for the tag @Chatbash72 :)

Well a little update from me....it’s fair to say I’ve been a very negative nelly the past few months and really didn’t want to go to the Infertility Appointment on Tuesday BUT it was actually really positive.
I saw the nurse practitioner initially who said that my Day 3 and Day 21 results were really good, she said I’m definitely ovulating and also the fact that I’ve a very regular cycle (every 28 days) is good. She mentioned my weight but didn’t labour the subject and said just to try to lose a stone (I probably need to lose about 5). She said none of the information I had worried her and she believed it was literally all done to timing!

So next steps:
I’m going to repeat the Day 3 and Day 21 tests just to be sure, she took blood yesterday for AMH tests and also took vaginal swabs, DH has to have his sperm tested, I’m going to have the dye/xray procedure and then we see the consultant in February to review all the results.

Has anyone had the dye/xray? What does it involve?

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CritterTamer · 07/11/2019 07:33

@maryshelley1818 that sounds positive! Do you mean the HSG test? I've had that and it's nothing to worry about, it only takes a few minutes and will check that your fallopian tubes are open. In honesty it is quite painful but the pain didn't last long - maybe a few minutes of discomfort and 30 seconds of bad pain.
Fingers crossed it all goes well for you 🤞

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NicLondon1 · 07/11/2019 10:27

@Russkispy Can't believe it, am heartbroken for you. Sending hugs xxx

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Russkispy · 07/11/2019 14:29

Thank you all! Very grateful for your lovely and supportive comments!
It's been the shittiest year ever! And I really hope this nightmare ends soon and soon enough I'll hold my Uber special rainbow in my arms!
And I absolutely wish the same to you all! X

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Chatbash72 · 07/11/2019 15:04

Sending lots of love @Russkispy 💕💕💕💕

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Mystie · 07/11/2019 15:17

@Russkispy so so sorry. You will get your rainbow baby, don't lose hope 🌈

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